Are You Ready to Date?

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  I’ve been so hurt in the past and fear this will happen again so if someone reminds me of an ex – I’m out of there.

  • A.
    Oh yes…this is me.
  • B.
    Sometimes.
  • C.
    Never.
• 2.
  When a date doesn’t go very well, I tend to blame myself.

  • A.
    Yup, I totally blame myself.
  • B.
    Sometimes... it depends on how much I like the person.
  • C.
    No! There is no one to blame! 
• 3.
  When I’m “ghosted” it sucks but I get over it quickly.

  • A.
    That’s right… I’m over it fast.
  • B.
    It depends on the person. 
  • C.
    Never, ever, ever – always hurts.
• 4.
  I would like to date more but I feel like I need to lose weight, get a better job or get a better wardrobe first.

  • A.
    Sometimes I feel great…sometimes not so much. 
  • B.
    Ugh… yes. 
  • C.
    Not me… I love myself.
• 5.
  I take my online “matches” very seriously and study the person’s profile to make sure we have a lot in common before I decide to go on a date.

  • A.
    Oh yes, I’m on it!  
  • B.
    I just go with the flow. 
  • C.
    Sometimes... depends on the profile picture. 
• 6.
  I find myself comparing my current dates to my ex-boyfriend/ex-girlfriend.

  • A.
    Always.
  • B.
    Depends on the ex. 
  • C.
    Never, ever, ever – when it’s over…it’s over. 
• 7.
  When I’m rejected by someone, it hurts, but I don’t let it define how I see myself or whether or not I continue to date.

  • A.
    Yes! I’m good about dusting myself off. 
  • B.
    Again…depends on the person. 
  • C.
    I’m devastated and can’t get out of bed.
• 8.
  I feel guilty for the mistakes I made when I was with my last boyfriend/girlfriend. 

  • A.
    Oh yes… so much guilt!
  • B.
    A little and I still hope we’ll get back together. 
  • C.
    Not me… I’ve moved on. 
• 9.
  I don’t text back and forth with dates before we meet. If someone doesn’t ask me out or commit to meeting in person, I move on to the next person.

  • A.
    That’s right… on to the next one! 
  • B.
    I might wait one more day to see what happens... you never know.
  • C.
    Oh no…I’m caught up and have to keep going until we meet. 
• 10.
  I feel pressured to date because I feel like I should be “over” my last relationship.

  • A.
    You’re speaking my language. 
  • B.
    I don’t feel pressure, per se, just unsure if I’m really ready to move on.
  • C.
    I’m over my last relationship and just focusing on the present moment. 
• 11.
  Before each date, I like to fantasize that this person is “the love of my life” and I like to think about what our life together would be like.

  • A.
    Yes, you caught me... I do this all the time.
  • B.
    Never, I just want to get through the date. 
  • C.
    Just living in the moment. 
• 12.
  I go into all of my dates with a lot of expectations of how they will look, act and say.

  • A.
    I’ve got lots of expectations.
  • B.
    I try and stay realistic but it’s hard. 
  • C.
    I try not to expect anything, I just show up and see how it goes. 

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  You're the Grounded Dater
• 2.
  You’re the Dreamer Dater
• 3.
  You’re the Jaded Dater