How Should You View Your Crush?

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  How often do you talk to your crush?

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  • A.
    We've never actually had a conversation
  • B.
    Once in a while, usually in passing
  • C.
    We text from time to time
  • D.
    Pretty regularly
• 2.
  Do you usually see them in a group setting?

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  • A.
    Yeah, we hang out pretty much every time in a group setting
  • B.
    We've hung out on our own before
  • C.
    It varies
  • D.
    Um, see them yes, talk to them, not so much
• 3.
  How does your crush make you feel?

  • A.
    Excited and hopeful
  • B.
    Annoyed and frustrated
  • C.
    Blissful and dreamy
  • D.
    Comfortable and relaxed
• 4.
  How do you hug?

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  • A.
    Standard side hug
  • B.
    Usually a big hug when we see each other
  • C.
    Depends, either side hug or full hug
  • D.
    We don't
• 5.
  Has your crush ever done anything romantic for you? 

  • A.
    They helped me out with something I needed
  • B.
    They did something for me that was thoughtful and unexpected
  • C.
    I'm not sure, sometimes it seems like it but other times not really.
  • D.
    Well, I imagined how awesome our life would be together
• 6.
  If you called your crush today, what would they say?

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  • A.
    Who is this?
  • B.
    Hey, whats up?
  • C.
    Hey, good to hear from you!
  • D.
    Sorry I haven't been around much lately 
• 7.
  If you asked your crush on a date, what do you think they would say?

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  • A.
    Who is this? 
  • B.
    Like, just me and you?
  • C.
    Yeah, that sounds fun!
  • D.
    Sounds good, let me get back to you on when I'm free
• 8.
  How would you feel if your crush didn't return the same feelings?

  • A.
    Crushed
  • B.
    Disappointed
  • C.
    Surprised
  • D.
    Not surprised

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  ​Friendly Friend 

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  This person enjoys your company and likes you as a person, however it seems like they would prefer to just be your friend for now. That's not to say that once you guys to get know each other a little more that things might change; it's just for not it seems like friends is the level you are currently at. Having friends of the opposite (or same if that's your preference) sex is a great thing actually. You get insights into how their brains work and get to see things from a different perspective. Don't take it personally if your crush just wants to be friends, being friends could be a great thing! And remember, many of the best relationships start off as friends. If you aren't too crushed, still make an effort to get to know them on a friendly level without any expectations attached. You might realize that dating would be a good idea or you might realize that you are better off as friends.
• 2.
  ​Possible Potential

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  This crush has the potential to turn into something more! It's probably still a little too soon to tell, but so far things seem to be moving in the right direction. You're getting to know each other, you have playful banter, you flirt, you text, you've spent some time together; things are moving along in the right direction. Let things play out in their divine timing. It can be hard to just let things happen but sometimes, that's the best way to deal with a crush. You can try to amp up your flirting skills and make it known that you like them, but usually, when two people like each other they make an effort to get to know one another. They will make an effort to be around each other. If you are the only one making effort, give the other person some space to see if they would like to get to know you better or not. If they are the one doing everything, well give them a little help! And remember, the best type of crush is a crush without expectation. Enjoy this time and don't put too much pressure on the situation. Of course hope for hte best but don't try to force it.
• 3.
  Fun Fantasy

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  Your crush is one of those crushes that are fun and dreamy, for the most part. It's the kind of crush where you drift off into fantasy land and think of how amazing your life would be if you were with them. It can also be the type of crush where you kinda know deep down it probably won't ever become a reality, but you are still hopeful that it could happen. This is common with celebrities, teachers, bosses or even someone who is married. This can also be common with an attractive guy or girl who you've never actually talked to or maybe just say hi to once in a while. Depending on who your crush is, maybe try talking to them to see if you can move your crush from a fun fantasy to an possible potential? If you haven't spent much time with them, attempt to get to know them better and see how it goes. However, if your crush is already committed, a celebrity or in a position that could possibly mess up an area of your life, then don't allow it to go any further than the fantasy. It can be fun to think of how your life would be with that person, but there are some crushes that just shouldn't be acted upon. If yours is one, just enjoy it for now but make sure you don't take it further than it's meant to go.
• 4.
  ​Flirty Frustration

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  It sounds like your crush is causing you more pain than good at this point. There could be many reasons for this; maybe you are overthinking, maybe they are playing games with you or maybe they aren't even sure if they like you. At this point the most important thing is for you to take a step back from them for your own good. It might not seem like a great idea at first, but if you value your mental health, it's a good thing. The first thing is to put your crush into perspective; is there actually any potential? If no, then stop wasting your time. If yes, great, now it's time to release expectations. Realize that a crush is basically hoping that something will happen but with no expectation. At the end of the day you have no idea if you will end up with that person. There are so many people in the world, don't allow yourself to get hung up and frustrated over one who might not be feeling the same way about you.