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Your Female Personality Archetype is The Beta Female!
You’re a great listener, ultimately compassionate, and so good at helping people see all the sides of any issue.You tend to avoid conflicts. Your personality is often characterized as kind, which makes you naturally unreactive to others. You prefer not to engage in arguments or share your opinions, which helps you to steer clear of conflicts.However, this unreactiveness can cause anxiety for you, especially in social situations. You are often anxious about fitting in and being accepted by others. This anxiety reinforces your reluctance to take charge and express your needs and wants, which can lead to a self-fulfilling prophecy of inadequacy.Your friendliness is one of your most prominent traits. You try to gain acceptance through kindness and are often regarded as one of the friendliest personalities. Although being friendly helps you to form relationships and make connections, it can also lead to others taking advantage of you.You are always eager to help others, even if it means volunteering for a cause that you have little interest in. Your desire for acceptance makes you more likely than others to lend a helping hand to gain friendship and respect.Despite the traits that might make you appear weak, you should be respected for your kindness, willingness to help, and desire to make others happy. As a beta female, you are always looking to find your place among friends and be a great friend to others.“The only way to change someone’s mind is to connect with them from the heart.” — Rasheed Ogunlaru.Keep reading for your customized plan to use your strengths to reach for the top while bringing others up with you:Self-Assertion and Confidence Building:Begin by working on your self-confidence and assertiveness. Understand that being kind doesn't mean you have to avoid expressing your needs and opinions. Practice assertive communication, which involves expressing yourself clearly and respectfully. Start in low-stakes situations and gradually work your way up. Set small goals for speaking up or asserting yourself in social or professional settings. With each successful interaction, your confidence will grow, and the anxiety you feel about fitting in will diminish.Boundaries and Self-Care:As a naturally friendly and helpful person, it's crucial to establish healthy boundaries and practice self-care. Learn to recognize when you're overextending yourself or saying yes when you should say no. Understand that setting boundaries is not unkind; it's a way to protect your energy and well-being. Make a list of your priorities, both in terms of personal and professional goals and your own needs. Dedicate time each day or week to self-care activities that recharge you, such as meditation, hobbies, or exercise. By taking care of yourself, you'll be better equipped to help others effectively.Purposeful Giving and Contribution:Your eagerness to help is a remarkable trait, but it's essential to ensure that your efforts are aligned with your interests and values. Instead of volunteering for causes that don't resonate with you, focus on those that genuinely matter to you. Identify causes, organizations, or activities that you're passionate about and where your kindness can make a meaningful impact. By directing your kindness and willingness to help towards causes that resonate with you, you'll feel more fulfilled and authentic in your contributions.In your ShadowYou can become too distant, living so much in your head that you can forget your commitments and deadlines.Are you looking to transform your life?1. Check out our Dragonfly Wisdom Society website. We are a community of like-minded women who help each other with inspiration and support, coaching programs, and free resources.2. Join The Dragonfly Wisdom Society's Facebook/ Instagram Page. To be current on live events, coaching calls, new programs, and workshops.Be sure to download our FREE Get Clear On Your Desires Workbook and other valuable resources!