What Are Your Sex Languages?

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Quiz Questions

1.
I like my partner to...
- A.
  Be commanding and confident OR enjoy it when I am
- B.
  Be unpredictable and not take sex too seriously
- C.
  Bring the romance
- D.
  Show me they choose me, but they don't need me
2.
An attractive partner...
- A.
  Is well-spoken and enjoys long talks
- B.
  Loves public displays of affection
- C.
  Makes me feel attractive
- D.
  Dresses well in stylish, good quality clothes
3.
To help me get in the mood I'd prefer...
- A.
  Soft music, dim lighting, scented candles, high thread count sheets
- B.
  My partner to look at me like they want to devour me
- C.
  To have sweet poetic words whispered in my ear
- D.
  To get right to it and enjoy our precious and limited time together
4.
In the bedroom I prefer...
- A.
  To talk about things that matter
- B.
  To know my partner appreciates me
- C.
  One of us to be in control
- D.
  To experiment with fun, new things
5.
Before sex I want...
- A.
  To know I'm appreciated for all I do
- B.
  Some spicey sexting
- C.
  To be told an erotic story
- D.
  To be told to behave or I'll be punished OR to tell my lover that
6.
After sex I want...
- A.
  Cuddles, kisses and candles
- B.
  To get up and go do something fun
- C.
  To debrief what we liked
- D.
  To hear how much I matter
7.
To keep my interest my partner needs to
- A.
  Flirt with me, give me their time and attention
- B.
  Be willing to learn even about things like unusual desires
- C.
  Enjoy spending time apart, which makes being reunited so fun
- D.
  Not take sex too seriously, get creative
8.
My partner is late. I want them to
- A.
  Apologize and schedule to another day if needed
- B.
  Keep in contact while they're making their way
- C.
  Share the story of what happened in detail, bonus if it's a stand- up routine
- D.
  Hug me when they arrive so I breathe in their scent
9.
When I receive a compliment from my partner I feel
- A.
  Seen, valued and cared about
- B.
  Like making a joke about it
- C.
  I want them to follow through with some hot, fun and/or kinky play
- D.
  Like it needs to be accurate or I don't believe it
10.
The best thing about sex is
- A.
  Having fun pushing boundaries, discovering new things and figuring out what makes them tick
- B.
  Showing someone how much they mean to me
- C.
  The anticipation
- D.
  Feeling alive
11.
Nobody orgasmed. I will
- A.
  Enjoy the intimacy and emotional vulnerability
- B.
  Be fine with it. Sexual play can be intense without orgasm.
- C.
  Take a few days away to build up the desire again
- D.
  Figure out ways to improve our connection
12.
My partner wants to try bondage. I will
- A.
  Give them a "Hell Yes!"
- B.
  Let them know this isn't my thing, but I'd like to make love
- C.
  Be willing to try it as long as they tell me they love me
- D.
  Read up on it or take a workshop so we do it safely
13.
My partner has to go away for a week. I will
- A.
  Drive them to the airport and offer to pick them up
- B.
  Text them several times a day to show them how much they matter
- C.
  Send them nudes and hope they return the favour
- D.
  Welcome them home with a candlelit homecooked meal
14.
My partner is feeling low. I will
- A.
  Check in while I'm at work
- B.
  Let them know how much I can't wait to be with them when they are ready
- C.
  Offer to give them a massage, a foot rub, or something they enjoy
- D.
  Take them to the adult club for some play time
15.
I'm feeling low. I want my partner to
- A.
  Leave me alone for the most part, but check in
- B.
  Hold me, spend time with me, tell me they love me, do something fun or romantic
- C.
  Turn the lights down, play some soothing music, run me a bath
- D.
  Offer to do something I've desired but haven't tried
16.
When I am feeling sexy, I want
- A.
  My partner to notice that I made the effort to look good and tell me how much they care
- B.
  To go out on the town to be shown off and to flirt in public, maybe pretend we don't know each other
- C.
  To socialize so we can make eyes at each other from across the room
- D.
  For them to surprise me with where we are going, maybe even blindfold me to take me there
17.
What gets me ready for sex is
- A.
  To have my alone time to reset
- B.
  To know my partner is planning a romantic getaway
- C.
  To talk about needs, wants and desires
- D.
  To have a massage
18.
A hot date with my partner would include...
- A.
  A comedy show, theatre or a fun activity like dancing
- B.
  Dinner at a hotel restaurant where we have a room booked for the night
- C.
  Slow dancing, lots of kissing and extended foreplay
- D.
  Exploring some sexy new edgy play

Quiz Outcomes

1.
Desire
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You need a partner that makes it clear that they want you, and badly. You enjoy compliments, eye contact and lots of flirting - maybe even sexting! The way to your bed is by making you feel like you are Desired and you are HOT!!
2.
Creativity
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Your ideal partner is playful and doesn't take sex too seriously. You like exploring new things, introducing games, costumes and fantasy talk. The way to your bed is to have FUN and lots of it!
3.
Kink
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You're a kinkster! You enjoy the dynamic of a power exchange, fetishes and the intensity of kinky play like bondage, blindfolds, spanking, etc. The way to your bed is by bringing the Kink!
4.
Romance
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You want a partner who is willing to make grand gestures, whisper sweet nothings, read poetry aloud and whisk you away to romantic locations. The way to your bed is by bringing on the Romance!
5.
Pursuit
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You need distance to appreciate all that your partner is. You like to watch them doing something they love, you enjoy your time away from them because you get to miss them and reunions are exciting! The way to your bed is by NOT being there all the time!
6.
Value
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You love to hear your partner appreciates all you do. When they thank you, acknowledge your efforts and say lovely things about you to others, you become putty in their hands! The way to your bed is to show how much you're Valued!
7.
Sensory Stimulation
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You enjoy having ALL of your senses stimulated. If the room is gently lit, with soft music playing or soothing sounds, soft bedding and the smell of something heavenly, you are all in...and for you, foreplay is as good as sex!The way to your bed is through the 5 Senses!
8.
Intellectual Stimulation
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You love to hear what matters to your partner, what ideas excite them and make them passionate about life. Debate, meaningful discussion, and long talks with someone intelligent are all foreplay for you! The way to your bed is through the MIND!

What Are Your Sex Languages?

Like Love Languages, we all have preferred ways to receive sexual attention.

Quiz Questions

Quiz Outcomes