Is your relationship affair-proof?

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Quiz Questions

1.
When your spouse calls, you . . .
- A.
  Always take the time to talk
- B.
  Sometimes take the time to talk
- C.
  Choose not to take the call, because what you are doing is usually more important
2.
If I'm with my spouse and someone else calls . . .
- A.
  I usually don't take the call out of respect for my spouse
- B.
  I will make sure it is ok with my spouse to take the call
- C.
  It's always okay to take a call when I'm with my spouse
3.
I speak with my spouse about non-logistical matters at least twice per day.
- A.
  Rarely
- B.
  Sometimes
- C.
  Always
4.
When something significant happens in my life, I share it with my spouse.
- A.
  Always
- B.
  Usually
- C.
  Maybe, sometimes
- D.
  Never
5.
When something significant happens in my life, I share it with my spouse.
- A.
  First
- B.
  Second or third
- C.
  I usually don't because it seems as if they don't care.
6.
I initiate positive loving physical contact with my spouse.
- A.
  Only for sex
- B.
  On average, twice per week
- C.
  Once per day
- D.
  Umm...what's that?
7.
Do you have any relationship goals?
- A.
  Oh man! I wish. I feel like we are on autopilot and can't get off of the ground.
- B.
  Honestly, I’m just trying to keep my head above water. We have a few goals but the daily grind has to be our focus.
- C.
  Yes! We've set goals and are working together to meet them.
8.
When we go to a social function . . .
- A.
  We spend all of our time socializing with others, and I wish we would spend more time out as a couple.
- B.
  I spend 1/2 of my time socializing with others and 1/2 of the time with my spouse and we are okay with that.
- C.
  Almost always, we are together at social functions.
- D.
  We rarely talk to each other when we are at a social gathering.
9.
When my spouse walks into the house . . .
- A.
  I finish what I'm doing before we talk.
- B.
  I begrudgingly leave what I'm doing to greet my spouse.
- C.
  I almost always interrupt whatever I'm doing to greet my spouse.
10.
When I walk into the house . . .
- A.
  The first thing I do is greet my spouse.
- B.
  I put my stuff away and unwind before I talk to my spouse.
- C.
  I don't usually talk to my spouse when I get home.
11.
I spend more time interacting with my spouse than I do watching TV, scrolling on my phone, or spending time online.
- A.
  True
- B.
  False
12.
I spend more time interacting with my spouse than anyone else in my life.
- A.
  True
- B.
  False
13.
My spouse and I go out alone at least. . .
- A.
  once per week
- B.
  twice per week
- C.
  once per month
- D.
  once per quarter
- E.
  seldom
14.
My spouse and I go on vacation alone together at least once per year.
- A.
  True
- B.
  False
15.
I have photos of my spouse in places where I see them often, such as my lock screen, the shelf above my workspace, in my wallet, or gym locker.
- A.
  True
- B.
  False
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- A.
  Keep going! Learning about yourself is always important!
- B.
  Click to continue.
17.
I have meaningful and personal discussions with my spouse . . .
- A.
  at least once per week for at least 25 minutes
- B.
  two or more times per week for at least 25 minutes
- C.
  less than once per week
- D.
  we're just roommates
18.
I do unnecessary thoughtful things for my spouse regularly.
- A.
  True
- B.
  False
19.
I interrupt whatever I'm doing if my spouse wants attention.
- A.
  All of the time
- B.
  Some of the time
- C.
  Never
20.
When I need someone to talk to, I talk to my spouse.
- A.
  Not usually
- B.
  Sometimes
- C.
  Always
21.
I recognize, in a significant way, my spouse's birthday, our anniversary, and other special days.
- A.
  Not usually
- B.
  Sometimes
- C.
  Always

Quiz Outcomes

1.
You’re a Connected Couple!
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Okay, hot stuff, you’ve got it going on! You’re so connected to your spouse that nothing is likely to come between you. You've done the hard work of staying connected. It will serve you well into the future. "Every successful marriage is the result of two people working diligently and skillfully to cultivate their love. When they combine passion, intimacy, and commitment, they are able to grow a flourishing, healthy marriage." Dr. Les Parrott Keep up the good work! For three personalized tips on how tokeep a rock-solid marriage, read on!Use Covenant Love You are already rockin' the relationship. You have a deep desire to see all that God has for you come to fruition in your marriage. Congratulations! Take it just a little farther, just a little deeper: God blesses us in covenant love. Use the covenant love concept to bless your spouse. Face your fear of being vulnerable Love and vulnerability go hand 'n hand — wanting one without the other is a toxic relationship waiting to happen. Regardless of whether you are a connected couple or a couple on the brink, there is usually room for more openness. Press into any place that you feel God is wanting you to open up to your spouse. Give it your all You only have one life. Some say that marriage is 50/50, but we can say for sure that marriage is 100/100. When each spouse gives their all, the groundwork of trust is established and is rarely broken. Hey there, 👋 We're Doug and Leslie Davis And we help married couples (yep, just like you) find encouragement and insight to equip them for life-long love. Doug and I married extremely young, especially by today's standards. We were both 20, but I saw in him someone who would protect me and would have my best interest at heart. That started a legacy of trust that has been woven through every inch of the fabric that is our lives. Through our platform & coaching, we're going to encourage you and your spouse to be all that God has called you to be so that you can have the solid marriage that God intended. ✨Three Quick Steps To Set You Up For Lasting Romance ⤵️1. Take your relationship to the next level. Download "The Couple's Prayer Guide", a guide to overcoming obstacles to an awesome prayer time. It’s going to show you how to get past the common barriers that stop most couples from having a fulfilling prayer time together. Bonus: It includes 7 things to consider to make it easier to pray with your spouse. 2. Connect with us on Facebook for tips, encouragement, and other fun things, like Pop Up BookClubs! @HeartCallMinistries 3. Need a quick fix? Book a one-on-one Zoom consultation with us. Remember, we're here to help you thrive in your marriage, so you can be who God intends you to be as a spouse. Watch your inbox for information on how to connect with us. What can we say? We just can’t get enough of you! So don’t be surprised to see us in your inbox with more relationship tips and tricks.
2.
You’re a drifting couple.
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So, you spend time with your spouse, but you don’t really spend time interacting. You’re no longer interested in or paying attention to them when you’re spending time together. You’re drifting apart. You no longer feel the need to go out of your way to show random acts of kindness, do special favors, or have meaningful and personal conversations. Intimacy is taking a hit. Emotional and physical intimacy is an important cornerstone in a healthy relationship. Yours may be unfulfilling and leave you feeling frustrated and alone. Perhaps you feel at a loss for what to do next. Or maybe, to avoid rejection, you've given up on having the "hard" talks."God will meet you where you are in order to take you where He wants you to go." - Tony EvansReady To Step Up Your Game?For Three Personalized Tips, Read On!Focus It's not too late to be a game-changer in your marriage. Begin to focus on interactions that say, "I love you," "I see you," "I hear you", and "I care about you". Build your marriage cultureYou have the power to begin to change the atmosphere in your relationship. Start by building a culture of appreciation. Remind yourself of your spouse's positive qualities and offer gratitude for positive actions. Be responsible for your own behavior Begin to look at things from your spouse's perspective and take responsibility for things that you haven't done correctly. Offer an apology.Hey there, 👋 We're Doug and Leslie Davis And we help married couples (yep, just like you) find encouragement and insight to equip them for life-long love. Doug and I married extremely young, especially by today's standards. We were both 20, but I saw in him someone who would protect me and would have my best interest at heart. That started a legacy of trust that has been woven through every inch of the fabric that is our lives. Through our platform & coaching, we're going to encourage you and your spouse to be all that God has called you to be so that you can have the solid marriage that God intended. ✨ Three Quick Steps To Set You Up For Lasting Romance ⤵️1. Download "10 Ways To Connect", a guide to new ways of connecting with your spouse. It’s going to show you why the disconnection you’re likely feeling doesn't have to be a permanent thing and how to overcome it!2. Connect with us on Facebook for tips, encouragement, and other fun things, like BookClub! @HeartCallMinistries 3. Need a quick fix? Book a one-on-one Zoom consultation with us. Remember, we're here to help you thrive in your marriage, so you can be who God intends you to be as a spouse. Watch your inbox for information on how to connect with us. What can we say? We just can’t get enough of you! So don’t be surprised to see us in your inbox with more relationship tips.
3.
Heads up! Your relationship may not be meeting the needs of you and your spouse, making you or your spouse vulnerable to seeking that fulfillment from outside sources. Your relationship is at risk for an affair.
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It's time to slow the roll and get back to the basics of young love. Your relationship is at risk of others fulfilling needs in the life of your spouse that you're not. The good news is that you have influence and are not helpless in your relationship to instigate a 180-degree turn-around.“A good marriage isn’t something you find; it’s something you make and you have to keep on making it.” – Gary Thomas (Author of Sacred Marriage)Begin to Solidify Your Marriage With Your Three Personalized Steps!Make a commitment to hold your ground Simply put--take divorce and affair out of your vocabulary. Be watchful of places that you are vulnerable to others filling needs that your spouse doesn't or can't. Don't put yourself at risk for an affair. Make choices to protect your marriage.Give yourself (and your spouse) permission for a do-overNot of the marriage--but any situation that didn't have an ending that moved you toward each other. Love and vulnerability go hand in hand — wanting one without the other is a toxic relationship waiting to happen. Accept the changes that’ll result from the new dynamics in your relationshipYou’re comfortable with your current life and the thought of evolving (even if it’s for the better) may scare you. Let it go, friend. Life is never constant, but the way God has intended for you to connect in your marriage will allow you to thrive together.Hey there, 👋 We're Doug and Leslie. And we help married couples (yep, just like you) find encouragement and insight to equip them for life-long love. Doug and I married extremely young, especially by today's standards. We were both 20, but I (Leslie) saw in him someone who would protect me and would have my best interest at heart. That started a legacy of trust that has been woven through every inch of the fabric that is our lives. Through our platform & coaching, we're going to encourage you and your spouse to be all that God has called you to be so that you can have the solid marriage that God intended. ✨ Three Quick Steps To Set You Up For Lasting Love ⤵️1. Download "10 Ways To Connect" a guide to new ways of connecting with your spouse. It’s going to show you why the disconnection you’re likely feeling doesn't have to be a permanent thing and how to overcome it!2. Connect with us on Facebook for marriage tips, training, and other helpful encouragement. @Doug & Leslie Davis3. Need some help? Book a one-on-one Zoom consultation with us. Remember, we're here to help you thrive in your marriage. We bring years of experience, pastoral and counseling backgrounds, and a desire to see God bless your marriage. Watch your inbox for information on how to connect with us. What can we say? We just can’t get enough of you! So don’t be surprised to see us in your inbox with more relationship tips.

Is your relationship affair-proof?

What kind of a couple are you?• a connected couple that is affair-proof •• a drifting couple • • a couple that is at risk for an affair •Take this 20 question quiz to find out.

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