Silent Symptoms: Are You Beyond the Exhaustion of Burnout?

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Quiz Questions

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What is your current employment situation?
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  I'm overworking at the moment but I enjoy my job.
- B.
  I hate my job, I feel underappreciated, I am underpaid and I am too exhausted to enjoy life after I clock off.
- C.
  Work is very stressful at the moment, most days it leaves me exhausted.
- D.
  I have so much job satisfaction in my current role.
- E.
  I am unable to work at the moment and I am currently on stress leave.
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How often do you feel wiped out? (physically fatigued or exhausted)?
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  Never, I have boundless energy.
- B.
  Sometimes if I am stressed or if I have had a bad night's sleep.
- C.
  After a hard day at work or an extreme workout.
- D.
  All the time, even when I wake up in the mornings, I have no motivation or energy to complete even small tasks.
- E.
  More often than I would like, but I still manage to get through my day by only attending to my basic needs.
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How frequently do you feel negative emotions?
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  Never.
- B.
  Some days seem better than others but sometimes I get pulled into a low state for no reason.
- C.
  If I've experienced something that makes me feel this way, though I tend to get over it quickly.
- D.
  Sometimes I will feel low but I try not to let it affect me or I'll do something to make myself feel better.
- E.
  Always, this seems to be how I feel on a daily basis.
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Are you able to focus or does your mind feel slow and foggy?
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  I'm as sharp as a knife.
- B.
  I often lose concentration and find it hard to pick up where I left off. I don't think this is normal.
- C.
  Some people call me dory I'm that forgetful.
- D.
  Reading is a challenge as the words won't register in my brain and often I'll forget how to articulate what I want to communicate to others. This scares me a lot.
- E.
  My level of functioning is not what it use to be, I've noticed I'm a lot slower with daily tasks so it takes me longer to complete anything.
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How do you cope with stress?
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  I can cope with all the big stressors in my life but if a small stressor comes along it tips me over the edge.
- B.
  Resilient is my 2nd name.
- C.
  Not very well. I tend to get emotionally triggered and either explode, crumble, or both.
- D.
  I feel that I cope very well even though I have lots of stress in my life.
- E.
  I tend to take a lot on board, it's so much stress that it's starting to impact my well-being
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How would you rate your level of patience?
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  I've noticed that I've become moody lately and quick to bite someone's head off.
- B.
  I get irritable over the smallest mishaps.
- C.
  Everyone and everything pisses me off, what the f@%k do people be thinking before they act in such a stupid manner?
- D.
  I'm continually screaming on the inside if I'm not being nasty to someone or myself.
- E.
  I'm as calm as a cucumber.
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Do you have sleep issues?
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  I am tired but wired at night, my mind won't shut off and when I do sleep I wake not feeling rested.
- B.
  Often I wake in the middle of the night & I'm unable to fall back to sleep.
- C.
  Sometimes I find it hard to fall asleep as my mind won't shut off but once I fall asleep I can sleep the night through.
- D.
  I sleep like a baby.
- E.
  I either have insomnia or wake up feeling like I haven't slept a wink when I do sleep.
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How much time, effort and energy do you invest in your relationships?
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  I always agree to meet-ups even though I am exhausted and tend to make myself feel worse afterwards.
- B.
  I've been avoiding many friends and family as they don't understand what it's like to be this exhausted.
- C.
  I spend time with my close relationships but only for short periods of time or doing low-level activities
- D.
  I would like to meet up with loved ones but I often cancel as I feel exhausted most days.
- E.
  I'm always socialising, being around people gives me energy.
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Do you have gut issues or sensitivity to certain foods?
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  I'm as healthy as an ox.
- B.
  I've noticed I'm becoming more sensitive to certain foods such as bread, dairy products, and coffee is having the opposite effect.
- C.
  It depends on what I eat, any heavy or fast food I will feel uncomfortable and sluggish
- D.
  I have awful gut issues, bloating, gas, abdominal pain, unpredictable bowel movements, food intolerances, weight issues, extreme food cravings and it seems to trigger many other symptoms. I never use to be this way.
- E.
  My stomach is in bits all the time, even certain fruit and veggies I can't eat anymore, I have no idea what to do.
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Have you noticed any bodily aches and pains recently?
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  I'm often tense with my workload and tend to be sore at the end of the day.
- B.
  I have an old sport or childhood accident injury that plays up when I'm stressed.
- C.
  I'm starting to notice more pain and more often in most areas of my body for no reason.
- D.
  My body hurts all over all the time, from migraines to back, knee, shoulder and stomach pain.
- E.
  I'm a spring chicken no matter my age.
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Does your mind have a mind of its own?
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  I often tell myself worst-case scenario stories which will result in me not moving towards my goals.
- B.
  I can't shut my mind off. It's like my mind has numerous thoughts going through my brain at the same time, it keeps me awake a night and takes a lot of my energy.
- C.
  I feel like my mind doesn't belong to me, the thoughts that enter my mind are so negative and I don't want to be thinking this way all the time.
- D.
  I'm in control of my mind and what I think.
- E.
  Sometimes my thoughts get away from me.
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What areas of your life are impacted the most from exhausted? (multiple answers)
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  Relationships
- B.
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  Emotions
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  Mindset
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  Health
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  Employment
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  Habits
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  Attitude
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  Future Goals
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  Energy Levels
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  Sleeping Patterns
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  Bodily Functions
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  Current Reality / Lifestyle
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Where do you feel you need the most support or guidance? (multiple answers)
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  Stress Reduction Techniques
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  Nervous System
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  Herbs and Supplements to support Burnout
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  Understanding and Managing Emotions
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  Movement That Reduces Burnout
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  Creating New Habits and Time-Management
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  Brain Functioning, Capacity & Focus
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  Strategies for better sleep
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  Nutritional Guidance for Mental & Emotional Support
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  Personal & Professional Development
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  Strengthening relationships
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  Techniques to Quiet The Inner Critic

Quiz Outcomes

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Energized & Engaged: Thriving, With Careful Attention
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Your score suggests you’re in the Energized & Engaged Phase, where life feels purposeful, fulfilling, and creative. You might find yourself fully immersed in what you’re doing, whether it’s your work, personal projects, or supporting loved ones. This is a time when your energy feels high, and your heart feels connected to what matters most to you.While this phase is incredibly rewarding, it’s important to be mindful of the unique challenges that come with it—especially for highly sensitive and empathic women. Feeling deeply connected and driven can sometimes lead to overextending yourself, blurring boundaries, or putting others’ needs before your own.Sustaining this energy requires balance and intentional care. When you pause to reflect and recharge, you’re better able to stay connected to the things that light you up without burning out."In the midst of passion and creativity, I find my balance, cherishing every moment of engagement." – Nichola Healing WildflowerStrategies to Maintain Your Momentum...1. Anchor Yourself with Boundaries: Feeling deeply connected to what you do is a gift, but it can make it harder to say “no.” Protect your energy by setting clear, kind boundaries—whether that’s carving out time for yourself, limiting overcommitments, or prioritising what truly matters.2. Pause for Regular Self-Check-ins: Ask yourself how you’re feeling physically, emotionally, and mentally. Even when you’re thriving, these quiet moments of reflection can help you notice when you might need rest, support, or a shift in focus.3. Nurture Your Emotional Well-being: Engage in activities that restore your emotional and physical energy. Spend time in nature, practice breathwork, or enjoy a quiet evening with something you love. Remember, self-care isn’t a reward—it’s what sustains your ability to thrive.About Nichola and Healing WildflowerHi, I’m Nichola Gois, founder of Healing Wildflower. I’m a trauma counselor dedicated to helping highly sensitive and empathic women navigate the challenges of burnout, stress, and hidden traumas that impact their emotional and physical well-being.My work is deeply rooted in both my personal and professional experience. Growing up during the conflicts in Northern Ireland, I faced life-threatening situations and emotional hardships from a young age. As a highly sensitive person myself, I often carried the weight of these experiences silently, becoming a source of strength for others while suppressing my own needs.These challenges inspired me to spend over 15 years studying trauma-informed practices, counseling, breathwork, subconscious rewiring, and mind-body healing. My mission is to guide other highly sensitive women toward resilience, peace, and a deeper understanding of their unique gifts.At Healing Wildflower, I blend cutting-edge neuroscience with intuitive, trauma-sensitive techniques to address hidden wounds, nervous system dysregulation, and the toll of overstimulation. Together, we’ll work toward uncovering and healing the layers of your past so you can feel more balanced, empowered, and connected to your inner light.Your Next StepsReady to explore your healing journey further? Here’s how we can begin:🌿 Join My Free Facebook Group: Connect with a community of highly sensitive women on similar paths. Inside, you’ll find tools like guided meditations, tapping, and stress-reducing exercises. You’ll also receive my free ebook on stress and resilience, offering insights to help you navigate life with greater ease.👉 Click here to join the group🌿 Explore Loinnir: A Journey to Light and Transformation: This program is designed to help you regulate your nervous system, release stored trauma, and create a fulfilling, purposeful life. 👉 Learn more hereP.S. Keep an eye on your inbox for more resources, tools, and guidance to help you heal hidden wounds and embrace your authentic self.With Love & BlessingsNicholaHealing Wildflower
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Heads Up! Early Signs of Stress Detected.
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Your score suggests you’re in the Onset of Stress Phase, a time when the initial excitement and energy of the Honeymoon Phase begin to wane. This is often when subtle signs of stress start to creep in, and while they might seem small now, they’re your body’s way of telling you something needs attention.You may be feeling more tired than usual or noticing physical symptoms like headaches, muscle tension, or disrupted sleep. Mentally, you might feel more distracted or less motivated, even for things you used to enjoy.While it’s tempting to push through these signs, ignoring them can lead to more significant challenges down the road. The good news? Recognising these early signals gives you the power to address them now and regain balance before stress takes a stronger hold."In the subtle whispers of stress, I listen attentively, seeking balance and harmony once more." - Nichola Healing WildflowerStrategies to Counteract Stress:1. Mindfulness Practices: Incorporate relaxation techniques, such as deep breathing, meditation, or gentle movement, into your daily routine.2. Delegate When Possible: Avoid taking everything on yourself. Share tasks or ask for help when you feel overwhelmed.3. Regular Breaks: Take short, intentional breaks throughout the day to recharge and refresh your focus.About Nichola and Healing WildflowerHi, I’m Nichola Gois, founder of Healing Wildflower. I’m a trauma counselor dedicated to helping highly sensitive and empathic women navigate the challenges of burnout, stress, and hidden traumas that impact their emotional and physical well-being.My work is deeply rooted in both my personal and professional experience. Growing up during the conflicts in Northern Ireland, I faced life-threatening situations and emotional hardships from a young age. As a highly sensitive person myself, I often carried the weight of these experiences silently, becoming a source of strength for others while suppressing my own needs.These challenges inspired me to spend over 15 years studying trauma-informed practices, counseling, breathwork, subconscious rewiring, and mind-body healing. My mission is to guide other highly sensitive women toward resilience, peace, and a deeper understanding of their unique gifts.At Healing Wildflower, I blend cutting-edge neuroscience with intuitive, trauma-sensitive techniques to address hidden wounds, nervous system dysregulation, and the toll of overstimulation. Together, we’ll work toward uncovering and healing the layers of your past so you can feel more balanced, empowered, and connected to your inner light.Your Next StepsReady to explore your healing journey further? Here’s how we can begin:🌿 Join My Free Facebook Group: Connect with a community of highly sensitive women on similar paths. Inside, you’ll find tools like guided meditations, tapping, and stress-reducing exercises. You’ll also receive my free ebook on stress and resilience, offering insights to help you navigate life with greater ease.👉 Click here to join the group🌿 Explore Loinnir: A Journey to Light and Transformation: This program is designed to help you regulate your nervous system, release stored trauma, and create a fulfilling, purposeful life. 👉 Learn more hereP.S. Keep an eye on your inbox for more resources, tools, and guidance to help you heal hidden wounds and embrace your authentic self.With Love & BlessingsNicholaHealing Wildflower
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Chronic Stress: It’s Time to Prioritize Your Well-being
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Your score indicates you’re in the Chronic Stress Phase, where persistent fatigue, anxiety, and a noticeable drop in focus and productivity may be impacting your life.Symptoms that once felt occasional may now feel constant, draining not only your energy but also your emotional resilience. This stage can feel heavy and overwhelming, but acknowledging where you are is an important and courageous first step.Chronic stress requires intentional care and attention. If left unaddressed, it can lead to more significant physical, emotional, and mental health challenges. The good news? With the right strategies, boundaries, and support, you can begin to recover, regain balance, and create a life that feels more sustainable and fulfilling."In the face of constant stress, I choose to prioritize my well-being and seek the support I deserve." – Nichola Healing WildflowerStrategies for Managing Chronic Stress:1. Seek Professional Support: Working with a trauma-informed therapist or counselor can help you explore the root causes of your stress, process unresolved emotions, and develop tools to navigate this phase more effectively.2. Re-Evaluate Your Workload and Commitments: Chronic stress often stems from overextension. Reflect on what you’re carrying and consider having open conversations with colleagues, family, or friends to share responsibilities or reduce pressure.3. Build Rest Into Your Routine: Your sensitive nervous system needs consistent rest to recover. Prioritize sleep, take short breaks during the day, and, if possible, carve out time for a vacation or extended pause to reset.About Nichola and Healing WildflowerHi, I’m Nichola Gois, founder of Healing Wildflower. I’m a trauma counselor dedicated to helping highly sensitive and empathic women navigate the challenges of burnout, stress, and hidden traumas that impact their emotional and physical well-being.My work is deeply rooted in both my personal and professional experience. Growing up during the conflicts in Northern Ireland, I faced life-threatening situations and emotional hardships from a young age. As a highly sensitive person myself, I often carried the weight of these experiences silently, becoming a source of strength for others while suppressing my own needs.These challenges inspired me to spend over 15 years studying trauma-informed practices, counseling, breathwork, subconscious rewiring, and mind-body healing. My mission is to guide other highly sensitive women toward resilience, peace, and a deeper understanding of their unique gifts.At Healing Wildflower, I blend cutting-edge neuroscience with intuitive, trauma-sensitive techniques to address hidden wounds, nervous system dysregulation, and the toll of overstimulation. Together, we’ll work toward uncovering and healing the layers of your past so you can feel more balanced, empowered, and connected to your inner light.Your Next StepsReady to explore your healing journey further? Here’s how we can begin:🌿 Join My Free Facebook Group: Connect with a community of highly sensitive women on similar paths. Inside, you’ll find tools like guided meditations, tapping, and stress-reducing exercises. You’ll also receive my free ebook on stress and resilience, offering insights to help you navigate life with greater ease.👉 Click here to join the group🌿 Explore Loinnir: A Journey to Light and Transformation: This program is designed to help you regulate your nervous system, release stored trauma, and create a fulfilling, purposeful life. 👉 Learn more hereP.S. Keep an eye on your inbox for more resources, tools, and guidance to help you heal hidden wounds and embrace your authentic self.With Love & BlessingsNicholaHealing Wildflower
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Critical Alert: You're Experiencing Burnout
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Your score indicates you’re in the Burnout Phase, where symptoms have become critical and are now significantly impacting your physical, emotional, and mental well-being.You might feel constantly exhausted, emotionally detached, and overwhelmed by even the simplest tasks. At this stage, everything can feel like too much, making it difficult to find the energy or clarity to move forward.Burnout isn’t just about work anymore, it’s about your overall health and quality of life. The good news is that recovery is possible, but immediate intervention is crucial. Seeking support and making intentional changes is a powerful act of self-care and courage."In my darkest moments, I remember that seeking light and support is an act of courage." – Nichola Healing WildflowerStrategies to Navigate Burnout:1. Professional Help: Work with a professional who specialises in burnout recovery to help you identify the root causes and guide you toward sustainable healing.2. Limit Stressors: If possible, consider reducing your workload or exploring temporary changes in your job role or environment to alleviate pressure.3. Holistic Healing: Incorporate mind-body practices like yoga, breathwork, or massage to address both mental and physical symptoms. These gentle practices can create space for recovery and renewal.About Nichola and Healing WildflowerHi, I’m Nichola Gois, founder of Healing Wildflower. I’m a trauma counselor dedicated to helping highly sensitive and empathic women navigate the challenges of burnout, stress, and hidden traumas that impact their emotional and physical well-being.My work is deeply rooted in both my personal and professional experience. Growing up during the conflicts in Northern Ireland, I faced life-threatening situations and emotional hardships from a young age. As a highly sensitive person myself, I often carried the weight of these experiences silently, becoming a source of strength for others while suppressing my own needs.These challenges inspired me to spend over 15 years studying trauma-informed practices, counseling, breathwork, subconscious rewiring, and mind-body healing. My mission is to guide other highly sensitive women toward resilience, peace, and a deeper understanding of their unique gifts.At Healing Wildflower, I blend cutting-edge neuroscience with intuitive, trauma-sensitive techniques to address hidden wounds, nervous system dysregulation, and the toll of overstimulation. Together, we’ll work toward uncovering and healing the layers of your past so you can feel more balanced, empowered, and connected to your inner light.Your Next StepsReady to explore your healing journey further? Here’s how we can begin:🌿 Join My Free Facebook Group: Connect with a community of highly sensitive women on similar paths. Inside, you’ll find tools like guided meditations, tapping, and stress-reducing exercises. You’ll also receive my free ebook on stress and resilience, offering insights to help you navigate life with greater ease.👉 Click here to join the group🌿 Explore Loinnir: A Journey to Light and Transformation: This program is designed to help you regulate your nervous system, release stored trauma, and create a fulfilling, purposeful life. 👉 Learn more hereP.S. Keep an eye on your inbox for more resources, tools, and guidance to help you heal hidden wounds and embrace your authentic self.With Love & BlessingsNicholaHealing Wildflower
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Habitual Burnout: The Call for Deep Restoration
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Your score places you in the Habitual Burnout Phase, where chronic physical, emotional, and mental challenges have become a persistent part of your daily life.At this stage, symptoms like constant fatigue, emotional detachment, and physical discomfort might feel so ingrained that they seem “normal.” But here’s the truth: this state is not how life is meant to feel. A life filled with balance, energy, and purpose is still within reach, it starts with recognising where you are and taking the first steps toward healing.Habitual burnout signals the need for both immediate care and long-term transformation. While this may feel overwhelming, prioritising your well-being is not only possible but essential. You deserve to feel joy, connection, and vitality in your life again."Even in the depths of habitual burnout, I believe in the possibility of renewal and transformation." – Nichola Healing WildflowerStrategies for Long-Term Healing:1. Take an Extended Break: If possible, step away from work or daily responsibilities for a meaningful period. This time can help you reset and allow your nervous system to recover from chronic stress and overstimulation.2. Engage in Comprehensive Therapy: Long-term therapy or counselling tailored to your needs can address the emotional and physical toll of burnout. Trauma-informed approaches like somatic work, nervous system regulation, or parts work can guide you toward deep, lasting healing.3. Reassess and Realign Your Lifestyle: This is the time to rethink your priorities and create a life where your well-being comes first. Build self-care rituals, establish boundaries, and make choices that nourish your body, mind, and spirit. Even small changes can start the process of renewal.About Nichola and Healing WildflowerHi, I’m Nichola Gois, founder of Healing Wildflower. I’m a trauma counselor dedicated to helping highly sensitive and empathic women navigate the challenges of burnout, stress, and hidden traumas that impact their emotional and physical well-being.My work is deeply rooted in both my personal and professional experience. Growing up during the conflicts in Northern Ireland, I faced life-threatening situations and emotional hardships from a young age. As a highly sensitive person myself, I often carried the weight of these experiences silently, becoming a source of strength for others while suppressing my own needs.These challenges inspired me to spend over 15 years studying trauma-informed practices, counseling, breathwork, subconscious rewiring, and mind-body healing. My mission is to guide other highly sensitive women toward resilience, peace, and a deeper understanding of their unique gifts.At Healing Wildflower, I blend cutting-edge neuroscience with intuitive, trauma-sensitive techniques to address hidden wounds, nervous system dysregulation, and the toll of overstimulation. Together, we’ll work toward uncovering and healing the layers of your past so you can feel more balanced, empowered, and connected to your inner light.Your Next StepsReady to explore your healing journey further? Here’s how we can begin:🌿 Join My Free Facebook Group: Connect with a community of highly sensitive women on similar paths. Inside, you’ll find tools like guided meditations, tapping, and stress-reducing exercises. You’ll also receive my free ebook on stress and resilience, offering insights to help you navigate life with greater ease.👉 Click here to join the group🌿 Explore Loinnir: A Journey to Light and Transformation: This program is designed to help you regulate your nervous system, release stored trauma, and create a fulfilling, purposeful life. 👉 Learn more hereP.S. Keep an eye on your inbox for more resources, tools, and guidance to help you heal hidden wounds and embrace your authentic self.With Love & BlessingsNicholaHealing Wildflower

Silent Symptoms: Are You Beyond the Exhaustion of Burnout?

Did you realize burnout has 5 distinct stages? Many of us tirelessly push through daily challenges, unresolved traumas, and mounting stress, often unaware of the toll it's taking. Discover your burnout stage and unlock tailored insights to guide you on your journey forward.....

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