What's the health of your marriage?

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Quiz Questions

1.
Which one are you?
- A.
  Husband
- B.
  Wife
2.
What is your current level of overall satisfaction in your marriage?
- A.
  Very satisfied
- B.
  Somewhat satisfied
- C.
  Depends on the day
- D.
  Somewhat dissatisfied
- E.
  Very dissatisfied
3.
Have you or your spouse ever suggested, threatened, or discussed divorce?
- A.
  Yes, many times
- B.
  Yes, once or twice
- C.
  I don't think so
- D.
  No, never
4.
In the past year, how much alone time have you spent with your spouse (just the two of you, not with other people)?
- A.
  We rarely ever spend time with just the two of us.
- B.
  We have alone time about once per month or less.
- C.
  We have alone time at least weekly.
- D.
  We have alone time almost daily.
5.
Do you believe that your marriage can be happier?
- A.
  I have pretty much given up on a happier marriage
- B.
  I doubt it but it may be possible
- C.
  It’s possible but would take a lot of work
- D.
  I can't imagine being happier than we already are.
6.
Have you experienced infidelity in your marriage?
- A.
  Yes, both of us have cheated
- B.
  Yes, one of us has cheated
- C.
  No
7.
Do you trust your spouse?
- A.
  No, not really
- B.
  I am struggling with trust issues.
- C.
  I trust my spouse mostly.
- D.
  I trust my spouse completely.
8.
How safe do you feel to be vulnerable with your spouse?
- A.
  I am very closed off, guarded, and defensive.
- B.
  I have some walls up.
- C.
  I am pretty open but somewhat protective.
- D.
  I am able to safely and completely be vulnerable with my spouse in every way.
9.
If you're being honest, how much respect do you have for your spouse?
- A.
  I have little to no respect for my spouse.
- B.
  I respect my spouse but not as much as I used to.
- C.
  I respect my spouse mostly.
- D.
  I respect my spouse very much.
10.
How much do you love your spouse?
- A.
  I have no love for my spouse and sometimes think I even hate them.
- B.
  I don't feel "in love" with my spouse anymore, but I still care about him/her.
- C.
  I love my spouse but not like I should.
- D.
  I am so in love with my spouse and can't imagine life without him/her.
11.
Do you have resentment toward your spouse?
- A.
  Yes, I can never forgive him/her for the things he/she said or did.
- B.
  Yes, there are a lot of things I'm struggling to forgive.
- C.
  I probably have some level of resentment.
- D.
  No, I don't think I have any resentment or unforgiveness toward my spouse.
12.
Do you feel that your spouse accepts you for who you are?
- A.
  No, my spouse is always trying to change me.
- B.
  I don't think so.
- C.
  Mostly
- D.
  Yes
13.
Have you accepted your spouse for who they are?
- A.
  No, there are a lot of things they need to change.
- B.
  Not really
- C.
  Mostly
- D.
  Yes
14.
Do you and your spouse have the same spiritual beliefs?
- A.
  No, we are on completely different pages when it comes to spirituality.
- B.
  We have slightly different beliefs.
- C.
  I think so.
- D.
  Yes, very much.
15.
Rate your marital communication.
- A.
  Most serious (or even not-so-serious) conversations turn into arguments
- B.
  Communication is really difficult in our marriage.
- C.
  Sometimes we communicate well, and sometimes we don't.
- D.
  We communicate well most of the time.
- E.
  Communication is rarely an issue for us.
16.
When it comes to resolving conflict...
- A.
  we eventually just go to bed or stop talking and act like nothing happened
- B.
  we keep talking and/or fighting about the same thing(s) but never really resolve anything
- C.
  we have a hard time resolving our conflicts but sometimes we're able to
- D.
  we are able to resolve most of our conflicts in a way that satisfies both of us
17.
How well does your spouse meet your needs?
- A.
  Not well at all
- B.
  Somewhat well
- C.
  Very well
18.
Do you and your spouse have fun together?
- A.
  No, my spouse isn't fun.
- B.
  Sometimes
- C.
  Yes, often
19.
In your opinion, how is your sex life?
- A.
  Our sex life is nonexistent or unsatisfying.
- B.
  Our sex life is boring and less than satisfying.
- C.
  Our sex life is okay (not great, not bad).
- D.
  Our sex life is pretty good.
- E.
  I'm very satisfied in my marital sex life.
20.
How often do you have sex with your spouse?
- A.
  Never or less than once per year
- B.
  More than once per year but less than once per month
- C.
  At least once or twice per month on average
- D.
  At least once per week on average
- E.
  At least two times per week on average

Quiz Outcomes

1.
Marriage Health: Very Poor
Compared to other marriages, your marriage has scored in the bottom 25% in terms of health and satisfaction. Based on your score, I'm sorry to tell you that your marriage health is very poor. In fact, your marriage may be in serious trouble. My name is Kelly Case. I'm a licensed counselor and marriage expert. And believe it or not, I've helped many people in your situation to find hope, fulfillment, and satisfaction again, even when they were ready to call it quits. It wouldn't be nice to say, "Your marriage is very poor. Have a nice day!" so I'd like to offer you a free guide to help. It's completely free - no strings attached! I'll send it to your email address right away.There is hope. But, things won't get better unless you take action. I've created this guide to help you better resolve the things you keep arguing about over and over again. This guide can be your first step in improving your relationship.Check your email and download this guide now to:Start resolving conflict...for real this timeGet my list of DO's and DON'Ts during an argumentLearn how to fight fairDiscover my secret for making up & making outYou can do something different and stop this negative cycle!
2.
Marriage Health: Poor
Compared to other marriages, your marriage has scored in the bottom 50% in terms of health and satisfaction. Based on your score, I'm sorry to tell you that your marriage health is poor. In fact, your marriage may be in serious trouble. My name is Kelly Case. I'm a licensed counselor and marriage expert. I help couples like you to find hope again and to achieve great levels of satisfaction in their marriage relationship.It wouldn't be nice to say, "Your marriage is poor. Have a nice day!" so I'd like to offer you a free guide to help. It's completely free - no strings attached! I'll send it to your email address right away.There is hope. But, things won't get better unless you take action. I've created this guide to help you better resolve the things you keep arguing about over and over again. This guide can be your first step in improving your relationship.Check your email and download this guide now to:Start resolving conflict...for real this timeGet my list of DO's and DON'Ts during an argumentLearn how to fight fairDiscover my secret for making up & making outYou can do something different and stop this negative cycle!
3.
Marriage Health: Surviving
Based on your score, I'm sorry to tell you that your marriage health is "surviving, not thriving." Your marriage is doing ok, but it's not first class. It could be worse, but it could also be better.My name is Kelly Case. I'm a licensed counselor and marriage expert. I help people have a first-class marriage, a marriage that is in the top 10% of all marriages in history in terms of satisfaction and fulfillment. It wouldn't be nice to say, "Your marriage is surviving not thriving. Have a nice day!" so I'd like to offer you a free guide to help. It's completely free - no strings attached! I'll send it to your email address right away.If you find yourself arguing about the same things over and over, this guide can be your first step in improving your relationship.Check your email and download this guide now to:Start resolving conflict...for real this timeGet my list of DO's and DON'Ts during an argumentLearn how to fight fairDiscover my secret for making up & making outYou can do something different and stop this negative cycle!
4.
Marriage Health: Thriving
Congratulations! Based on your answers, you have a first-class marriage! We are so happy for you and wish you many years of joy together!

What's the health of your marriage?

How healthy (or unhealthy!) is your marriage? Is it as bad as you think? How does it measure up? Marriage expert &amp; counselor Kelly Case developed this short quiz to help you assess the health of your marriage.

Quiz Questions

Quiz Outcomes

How healthy (or unhealthy!) is your marriage? Is it as bad as you think? How does it measure up? Marriage expert & counselor Kelly Case developed this short quiz to help you assess the health of your marriage.