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You Are Primarily Extrinsically Motivated
You are most driven by seeing the fruit of your labor. Being “extrinsically motivated” means you get your energy to complete difficult tasks by the reward or outcome you receive. You don’t want to waste time on things that don’t have a clear benefit, and you are probably pretty good at giving yourself little rewards for something you don’t like doing (getting Starbucks after a long study session). Examples of extrinsic motivators are things like studying to get a good grade, competing for a scholarship, and cleaning your dishes to avoid making your roommates angry. When you are facing a big challenge that doesn’t seem to have a good payoff, then trying to get motivated to do it feels almost impossible. For example, getting up early for a job you can’t stand and don’t get paid well or doing your laundry when you still have clean clothes in your closet. Sometimes there just isn’t enough incentive to do the things you believe you should do, and you feel stuck. Here's the good news! Since you respond well to things like rewards, praise, or to avoid adverse outcomes, there is almost always something you can find in every situation that could be a motivator for you. Here are some quick tips for when you are seriously lacking motivation: 1. Break it down. When faced with a big task, break it down into small parts and give yourself little rewards along the way. For example, finish one load of laundry and then let yourself watch one episode of your favorite show. Or set a timer to do school work for 30 minutes and then take a 10-minute break as a reward (chocolate is not a bad idea either ;). 2. Inject Joy. When you look at your entire week/month/year, and all you see is work, work, and more work, it is very easy to lose all motivation. Make sure you inject some joy (plan some fun stuff) into every day, week, month, and year. You need to be able to look ahead and see something fun coming in your future to be able to push through the hard stuff. 3.Call a friend. Sometimes, you may just need a friend to give you a pep talk or to keep you accountable. For example, ask your friend to give you some good reasons why you need to get your paper written. Then ask them to call you in one hour to see if you have gotten started. We all need a little push from time to time! Want more on how to “adult” when you reeeeeally don’t want to? Click the button below!See you soon :)