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Quiz Questions

1.
My relationship with _______ feels/ felt so emotionally exhausting. (select all that apply). Note: this even includes relationships with those who have passed away.
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- A.
  My Partner
- B.
  My Child/ Children
- C.
  My Mother
- D.
  My Father
- E.
  My Siblings
- F.
  My Adoptive Family
- G.
  My Ex
- H.
  My Mother-In-Law
- I.
  My Father-In-Law
- J.
  My Partner's Siblings
- K.
  My Partner's Ex
- L.
  My Partner's Child/ Children
- M.
  None, we're all one big happy family.
2.
Growing up, did you feel safe expressing how you felt within your family?
- A.
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  Yes, we were encouraged to express how we felt.
- B.
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  Somewhere in between.
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  Nope, pretending everything's okay and not speak about things is how it was done.
3.
How much of a sense of belonging did you feel within your family?
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  I feel a strong sense of belonging on both my dad's side and my mom's side of the family and that I can be myself.
- B.
  I feel a sense of belonging on both my dad's side and my mom's side of the family, however I learned to fit in with what was expected.
- C.
  I feel a sense of belonging to one side of the family more than the other side of the family.
- D.
  Wow, my family is something else and I feel like the black sheep.
- E.
  I was adopted/ in foster care.
4.
Which is true for you?
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  I know both my biological parents.
- B.
  I know my biological mother and I don't know my biological father/ have only met him in recent years.
- C.
  I know my biological father and I don't know my biological mother/ have only met her in recent years.
- D.
  I don't know my biological parents/ have only met my mother and or my father in recent years.
5.
What do you struggle with in your relationship with your partner? (select all that apply)
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  The painful push/pull dynamic where neither of us feel safe enough to truly open up to the other.
- B.
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  Recurring arguments which have resulted in tiptoeing around sensitive topics.
- C.
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  Emotional/ Anger outbursts.
- D.
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  Feeling blamed and criticized.
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  Pretending everything is okay and not speaking about things.
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  Lack of intimacy
- G.
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  Not feeling seen and appreciated.
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  Betrayal of trust.
- I.
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  Sticky previous relationship dynamics.
- J.
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  Demanding or interfering parents/ in-laws.
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  Finding a partner to be in a committed relationship with.
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  Staying with a partner. I have a history of relationships that just don't last.
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  Financially supporting parents/ in-laws
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  No issues, happy as can be.
6.
Can you sense what someone is feeling without him/her saying a word?
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  Yes for sure, I preempt subtle cues and take care of their needs first... "If they're okay, I'm okay"; "If they're happy, I'm happy".
- B.
  Yeah, when I choose to tune-in as a way to understand why someone is reacting/ behaving unexpectedly.
- C.
  Nope, I'm not concerned about trying to interpret how others are feeling, if it's important they will let me know.
7.
"We unconsciously and energetically take on the emotional and mental burdens of others." Does this feel true to you?
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  Yes, I feel emotionally exhausted carrying what's not mine to carry or drained by relationships but not sure why.
- B.
  Yes, this resonates and I'm not feeling so emotionally exhausted anymore because I've been working on this and now have awareness around it.
- C.
  This feels new to me and I'm curious.
- D.
  No, this doesn't resonate.
8.
Have you noticed similarities between your relationship with your partner that may mirror the dynamics of your parent's relationship/ your partner's parent's relationship?
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  Yes, there are repeating patterns.
- B.
  No, our relationship dynamics are very different.
- C.
  I’m currently not in a relationship.
9.
With the headboard behind you, which side of the bed do you sleep on?
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  Man on the right, Woman on the left.
- B.
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  Woman on the right, Man on the left.
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  We sleep in separate rooms/ houses.
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  We don't get to sleep as a couple, children share our bed.
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  I'm currently not in a relationship.
10.
A relationship anthropologist grants you a relationship wish! What do you ask for?
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  To feel seen, heard, understood and deeply connected with my partner.
- B.
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  To release the unexplainable unconscious responses and reactions I have to things that have nothing to do with the here and now.
- C.
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  To be able to trust my partner.
- D.
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  To let go of the need to feel in control of trying to fix everything and keep others happy.
- E.
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  To receive blessings from our families to live our lives forward fully, freely and completely, as a couple, without any family interference.
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  To find a partner to be in a committed relationship with.
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  I’m happy single.
11.
How would your friends describe your personality in 3 words?
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  Mystical, Intuitive, Observant.
- B.
  Creative, Leader, Playful.
- C.
  Truth, Integrity, Service.

Quiz Outcomes

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The most interfering hidden energetic is... Inner Child Core Wounding
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The most interfering hidden energetic is... Family Entanglements, Outdated Belief Systems and Misguided Loyalties
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The most interfering hidden energetic is... Previous Romantic Relationships
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