WHAT IS YOUR ATTACHMENT STYLE?

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Quiz Questions

1.
If I could, I would spend every moment with my partner. I take it personally when they want space.
- A.
  Agree
- B.
  Sometimes
- C.
  Disagree
2.
I'm okay being depended on by others.
- A.
  Agree
- B.
  Sometimes
- C.
  Disagree
3.
When single, I don't worry about finding a partner. I trust that the right person will come along in divine timing.
- A.
  Agree
- B.
  Sometimes
- C.
  Disagree
4.
I tend to self-sacrifice my relationships, almost always putting my partner's needs before my own.
- A.
  Agree
- B.
  Sometimes
- C.
  Disagree
5.
I get emotionally attached to others easily.
- A.
  Agree
- B.
  Sometimes
- C.
  Disagree
6.
I worry that getting too close to others will result in pain.
- A.
  Agree
- B.
  Sometimes
- C.
  Disagree
7.
Relationships are too consuming and stressful. I would rather be single and play the field.
- A.
  Agree
- B.
  Sometimes
- C.
  Disagree
8.
Depending on other people is fine for me.
- A.
  Agree
- B.
  Sometimes
- C.
  Disagree
9.
The thought of being alone scares me.
- A.
  Agree
- B.
  Sometimes
- C.
  Disagree
10.
When my partner falls through on a promise, I can take it very personally.
- A.
  Agree
- B.
  Sometimes
- C.
  Disagree
11.
I feel at ease in relationships. Trust is not an issue.
- A.
  Agree
- B.
  Sometimes
- C.
  Disagree
12.
I know what I want, but I have trouble expressing my feelings to my partner.
- A.
  Agree
- B.
  Sometimes
- C.
  Disagree
13.
I have good self esteem and a healthy outlook on myself and relationships.
- A.
  Agree
- B.
  Sometimes
- C.
  Disagree
14.
In relationships, I tend to be clingy.
- A.
  Agree
- B.
  Sometimes
- C.
  Disagree
15.
I often put my partner on a big pedestal and feel inferior to them.
- A.
  Agree
- B.
  Sometimes
- C.
  Disagree
16.
I need a lot more space from my romantic partners than they usually need from me.
- A.
  Agree
- B.
  Sometimes
- C.
  Disagree
17.
I'm used to being single, I'm often afraid that a relationship will take away my independence and freedom.
- A.
  Agree
- B.
  Sometimes
- C.
  Disagree
18.
I do not hold grudges easily or keep resentments long. I do, however, know how to set a healthy boundary with an unhealthy person if necessary.
- A.
  Agree
- B.
  Sometimes
- C.
  Disagree
19.
I don’t feel boundaries are necessary between myself and a romantic partner.
- A.
  Agree
- B.
  Sometimes
- C.
  Disagree
20.
I know that I am worthy of a healthy, happy relationship.
- A.
  Agree
- B.
  Sometimes
- C.
  Disagree

Quiz Outcomes

1.
Anxious Preoccupied
Anxious attachment style also known "anxious-preoccupied" is a type of insecure attachment style marked by a deep fear of abandonment. People with an anxious attachment style tend to be very insecure about their relationships, often worrying that their partner will leave them and thus always hungry for validation.
2.
Dismissive Avoidant
Avoidant attachment style is a type of insecure attachment style marked by a fear of intimacy. People with an avoidant attachment style tend to have trouble getting close to others or trusting others in relationships, because they ultimately don't believe their needs can get met in a relationship.
3.
Fearful Avoidant
Fearful-avoidant attachment style is a combination of both the anxious and avoidant attachment styles. People with fearful-avoidant attachment both desperately crave affection and want to avoid it at all costs. They're reluctant to develop a close romantic relationship, yet at the same time, they feel a dire need to feel loved by others.
4.
Securely Attached
Securely attached refers to the ability to form secure, loving relationships with others. A person with a secure attachment style is able to trust others and be trusted, love and accept love, and become close to others with relative ease. They're not afraid of intimacy, nor do they feel panicked when their partners need time or space away from them. They're able to depend on others without becoming totally dependent.