What's your Healthy Love Archetype?

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Quiz Questions

1.
When you think about your ideal healthy love story, what does the opening scene look like?
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- A.
  It's a whirlwind of romance, with grand gestures and heartfelt confessions.
- B.
  It's a tale of two self-sufficient souls meeting and not needing, but choosing each other.
- C.
  It's an adventurous and spontaneous journey, with no clear destination but plenty of excitement.
- D.
  It's a deep and transformative connection that blooms from shared healing and growth.
2.
What is your definition of "healthy love"?
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- A.
  A balanced dynamic between self and other where we feel encouraged to both be ourselves, while feeling like we can rely on each other.
- B.
  A caring and supportive team that helps each other heal from past traumas, while feeling safe to grow into the best versions of ourselves.
- C.
  Doing everything in our power to help each other feel free to be who we desire to be, both inside our relationship and out in the world.
- D.
  Being each other's heart mirrors and aiding to grow & release anything preventing more love from taking place.
3.
When dreaming of an ideal vacation with your new love, what's a must-have for you?
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- A.
  A retreat that offers both relaxation and opportunities for personal growth.
- B.
  A breathtaking suite with a view, perfect for a romantic getaway.
- C.
  No plans, just our backpacks and a sense of adventure to see where the wind takes us.
- D.
  A well-curated itinerary that allows us to explore and indulge in self-care.
4.
Which of the following would you love to receive most from your partner?
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- A.
  Empathy, compassion and deep conversations.
- B.
  Spontaneity and playfulness but no strings attached...
- C.
  Compliments, support and encouragement.
- D.
  The freedom to express myself and enjoy my own life and activities.
5.
After a disagreement with your partner, which of the following feels most like you?
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- A.
  Wonder if this relationship is really for me and consider leaving if it's not worth it.
- B.
  I step away, take time to reflect or even ruminate on what happened, and focus on the ways I could have done better.
- C.
  I care for my emotions, really hope they will reach out before I have to, but usually end up apologizing to move things back to love as quickly as possible.
- D.
  I retreat, focus on my own life, friends and projects while ignoring my partner's messages for a while.
6.
In your circle of friends, you're known as:
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- A.
  The successful and self-reliant friend who's got her life together.
- B.
  The one who's always ready with love advice and a shoulder to cry on.
- C.
  The wise soul who has overcome much and inspires others to do the same.
- D.
  The spontaneous and fun-loving spirit who's always up for an adventure.
7.
With a flick of your magic wand, you desire to experience this in your relationship in 5 years time:
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- A.
  5 years? I don't know if I could make it that long with the same person...
- B.
  We've both created a life we enjoy together, but we're also thriving in our individual careers and life projects.
- C.
  We're celebrating our 2nd renewal of vows on the beach in Hawaii with a small group of BFFs, two kids and a dog.
- D.
  We've overcome the initial challenges in relationship and have grown to be each other's best supporters, lovers, friends and life collaborators.
8.
How do you typically handle the end of a relationship?
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- A.
  I take time to heal and often find myself helping others with their heartaches.
- B.
  I embrace the change and quickly move on to new experiences and connections.
- C.
  I reflect on what I've learned, then I'm back to enjoying my fabulous life solo.
- D.
  I tend to dwell on the past and struggle to let go of the love we shared.
9.
Where do you feel you need the most help when it comes to love?
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- A.
  Opening to connection. I am great and creating a life that I adore, but when it comes to partnering up... I fear losing my sense of independence.
- B.
  Learning to trust my new partner or the situation. I generally assume things will go as they have always gone for me.
- C.
  Staying grounded. I tend to get attached rather quickly and then fear that the relationship will ultimately fall apart.
- D.
  Sticking with it. I fear getting stuck in something I don't want or can't follow through with.
10.
Which is the sexiest to you?
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- A.
  Role playing and really embodying our own characters when getting sexy.
- B.
  That powerful sexy connection that comes after a deep and fulfilling conversation.
- C.
  Candles, rose petals, a sunset and the longest kiss in history.
- D.
  Being handed a key with the option to play in any sexy themed room we want in the moment...

Quiz Outcomes

1.
The Love Goddess
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The romantic at heart. The optimistic one who dreams of beauty, passion, depth and forever love.Your type tends to be the giver in a relationship. Focusing on making your partner or potential partners happy.You believe in true love, love at first sight, soulmates. Kissing under the Full Moon.You’re an idealist when it comes to love.In a world filled with digital meetups, dating apps and quick swiping for favorites, we need more people like you to keep the essence of love alive!But here’s where things can get tricky for you Love Goddess:You are committed and loyal, beautiful qualities for successful and healthy relationships.But you also get attached quickly.Sometimes letting your dreamer’s mind get the better of you and becoming overly anxious when things start to feel distant or unpredictable.You can tend to attract partners who adore your aliveness, energy, giving nature, but are not ready to commit or give back in a reciprocal way.What to do:Keep coming back to your ideal healthy love scenario over and over again. And if something doesn't fit this ideal, consider walking away... They are lucky to be with you!!! Read on for your Love Coaching tips to attracting healthy love.I’m Xine La Fontaine, Love CoachI manifested a life with a 20+ year relationship, an ocean-view house on a subtropical island with two kids and a dog… only to realize the dream was built on a very unsustainable relationship foundation.After divorcing and getting back into dating, I applied the very same coaching practices I used to help my clients thrive in their love lives... Helping me move very quickly from attracting all the wrong guys... with repeated dating patterns that led to heartbreaks and frustration. To attracting healthy opportunities, creating unshakeable love-confidence and the same magnetism I help my clients achieve. How can I use this to guide me?Your adventure begins... You know the WHO, but let me show you HOW to use this information to attract and thrive in healthy love.Simply sign up for my weekly Love Letter and receive a personalized series of Love Coaching tips to help your Archetype attract the love you desire... and genuinely deserve.If you didn't in the previous step... Sign up for my weekly Love Letter below!Cheers to finding love in 2024Xine XOX ❤️
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The Self-Made Queen
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The focused and determined dreamer who gets shit done... But is ready to let love in. Your type has spent a lot of time creating a beautiful life for yourself and very likely, with the purpose of creating a better life for the world at large too.We can't thank you enough. It takes folks like you to make the changes that are much needed in these challenging times.Your gift of determination will serve you well in love challenges.And as a reward... We want you to feel just as cared for, as you've cared for everyone else!Because this will give you even more energy to stay on top of your creative endeavours.But here’s where things can get tricky for you Self-Made Queen:By placing so much energy into your work, projects, purpose... you've likely forgotten how to share parts of your heart, when it comes to love. Maybe past experiences have left you feeling like relationships are "more work" than is worth it. What to do:Remember it's never ONE or the OTHER, my ambitious one... you get to have both!! Your gradual opening into vulnerability and allowing the beauty of love in, will be your greatest tool for creating that healthy love that inspires for generations to come.Read on for your Love Coaching tips to attracting healthy love.I’m Xine La Fontaine, Love CoachI manifested a life with a 20+ year relationship, an ocean-view house on a subtropical island with two kids and a dog… only to realize the dream was built on a very unsustainable relationship foundation.After divorcing and getting back into dating, I applied the very same coaching practices I used to help my clients thrive in their love lives... Helping me move very quickly from attracting all the wrong guys... with repeated dating patterns that led to heartbreaks and frustration. To attracting healthy opportunities, creating unshakeable love-confidence and the same magnetism I help my clients achieve. How can I use this to guide me?Your adventure begins... You know the WHO, but let me show you HOW to use this information to attract and thrive in healthy love.Simply sign up for my weekly Love Letter and receive a personalized series of Love Coaching tips to help your Archetype attract the love you desire... and genuinely deserve.If you didn't in the previous step... Sign up for my weekly Love Letter below!Cheers to finding love in 2024Xine XOX ❤️
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The Natural Lover
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Lover of life. The butterfly that follows beauty, pleasure. With all the fun life has to offer, how can one decide?Your type has an insatiable desire to try it all. You are the master of going with the flow in relationships. Many admire you for this.You bring life to a party, and your admirers want to experience life through your eyes!Your freedom-loving ways create a beautiful quality of acceptance and curiosity towards the people around you.An honorable trait indeed.But here’s where things can get tricky for you Natural Lover:Choosing one thing and sticking to it, is not your strong suit. You may flirt with the idea of having a mate to grow with, but with such a wide array of interests, goals, things to explore... It may be challenging to put all your eggs in one person's basket, so to speak.What to do:Your gift is in your ability to adapt, and your teaching will be to set small, reachable goals to help you get to your desired healthy love life without feeling bored or limited.Hint: Love comes with all kinds of surprises you'll get to enjoy along the way.Read on for your Love Coaching tips to attracting healthy love.I’m Xine La Fontaine, Love CoachI manifested a life with a 20+ year relationship, an ocean-view house on a subtropical island with two kids and a dog… only to realize the dream was built on a very unsustainable relationship foundation.After divorcing and getting back into dating, I applied the very same coaching practices I used to help my clients thrive in their love lives... Helping me move very quickly from attracting all the wrong guys... with repeated dating patterns that led to heartbreaks and frustration. To attracting healthy opportunities, creating unshakeable love-confidence and the same magnetism I help my clients achieve. How can I use this to guide me?Your adventure begins... You know the WHO, but let me show you HOW to use this information to attract and thrive in healthy love.Simply sign up for my weekly Love Letter and receive a personalized series of Love Coaching tips to help your Archetype attract the love you desire... and genuinely deserve.If you didn't in the previous step... Sign up for my weekly Love Letter below!Cheers to finding love in 2024Xine XOX ❤️
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The Warrioress of the Heart
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Deep conversations and dreams of a better world are your vibe. The one who has undergone challenges yet continues to choose love. Your type isn't afraid to get your hands dirty when it comes to love. You believe in the potential of this wild humanity of ours and have grown through challenges while coming back to love again and again, on the other side.In a world filled conflict and disruption, you have much to teach when it comes to learning from our hard times and emerging from it, far more resilient and compassionate souls! But here’s where things can get tricky for you Warrioress of the Heart:Your ability to get through the hard times is a valuable quality that will help you in longer-term commitments.But trust takes time for you.It may feel easier to only let people see the "strong" or "cool" side of you, when healthy connection requires your vulnerability. What to do:Your work will lie in releasing the expectation that something will go as it always has, and opening to new possibilities! A very powerful kind of love indeed.Read on for your Love Coaching tips to attracting healthy love.I’m Xine La Fontaine, Love CoachI manifested a life with a 20+ year relationship, an ocean-view house on a subtropical island with two kids and a dog… only to realize the dream was built on a very unsustainable relationship foundation.After divorcing and getting back into dating, I applied the very same coaching practices I used to help my clients thrive in their love lives... Helping me move very quickly from attracting all the wrong guys... with repeated dating patterns that led to heartbreaks and frustration. To attracting healthy opportunities, creating unshakeable love-confidence and the same magnetism I help my clients achieve. How can I use this to guide me?Your adventure begins... You know the WHO, but let me show you HOW to use this information to attract and thrive in healthy love.Simply sign up for my weekly Love Letter and receive a personalized series of Love Coaching tips to help your Archetype attract the love you desire... and genuinely deserve.If you didn't in the previous step... Sign up for my weekly Love Letter below!Cheers to finding love in 2024Xine XOX ❤️

What's your Healthy Love Archetype?

Uncover your Healthy Love Archetype and learn how to use your strengths to create the healthy love life of your dreams.

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