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You have a: CALLING-IMPASSIONED MINDSET
Which means… You’re aptly managing the demands + delights of motherhood; also you’ve identified your passion (in addition to motherhood), and you’re committed to it. Your passion is a huge part of who you are, and you’re ready to pursue it in a meaningful way, now that the demands of motherhood have changed. (THIS IS SUPER EXCITING!!)Let’s talk about calling. For many Calling-Impassioned Moms, becoming a mom has always been the primary calling. And now that you’ve been fully momming for some time (and perhaps you’re past the most demanding years of it), you may have had a thought like this: I dreamed of getting to this point. Here I am. Now what? And that’s not to diminish the calling of motherhood (no way!). Being Mom in your family will always be central to your life and identity. It’s just that you’re ready to incorporate a new dimension to your calling!Lucky you, you’re clear on your passion. Most midlife moms wish they had a clear passion, but you, my friend, have this covered. At this point, you feel called to pursue your passion in a bigger way than you already are. You may already be devoted to your passion (paid or unpaid), but if not, you’ve made the decision to fold your passion into your life more intentionally. You know that it’s time to expand into the next chapter of your midlife journey, and now it’s just a matter of figuring out what role your passion will play. You’re in the perfect mindspace to retreat for the purpose of gaining inner clarity, and this is a delicious place to be when you embrace it. Here’s why: there is a blank page before you that YOU get to author! Even if you’re feeling like it’s too late. Even if you’re feeling like you lack confidence. Even if there are barriers or conditions. You’ve lived all the years of your life, and you’ve gained wisdom and know-how. You, my friend, are at your prime. And your passion is ready to take the driver’s seat.As a mom, you are an enhanced version of yourself from who you were before becoming Mom. This isn’t news. But, let’s get real… have you thoughtfully checked in with yourself lately? Can you easily reply to the question: Who are you? (…beyond your name, silly!) And: What is your ideal mom:calling balance? And: What do you want for Future You?If responses easily came to you, you have a solid sense of yourself at this stage in life, and I’d encourage you to lean into your passion-centered calling, Mama. If you’re realizing that you haven’t really considered how you’ve grown as an individual since motherhood baked itself into your life, the great news is that you have a growth mindset, and it’s probably time for some personal reflection and next-stage-planning.Mindset is generally categorized as one of two things, according to Dr. Carol S. Dweck (the researcher and Stanford University professor whose discoveries have shaped the conversation around mindset). Quite simply, people with a fixed mindset believe that their abilities are set; and people with a growth mindset believe that abilities can be developed. As for your Midlife Mom Mindset, you have more of a growth mindset, which is ideal for Calling-Impassioned MomsHi! I’m Lindsay Hurty.I help midlife moms uncover the next version of their callings. My students have described me as a teacher of the soul, a seed-planter, and a connector to one's path.I’m a former high school English teacher turned self-development educator because I ask good questions, listen with care, offer words that guide, and I’ve got a knack for connecting adults back to themselves and to each other. I also co-founded Everwell, which is an education platform + inspiration network for women. You can deep dive here. Most significantly, I’m in love with the midlife mom journey… because we’re uniquely fertile. (But not in the way you’re used to hearing about fertility.) We’re fertile with acquired wisdom and with a particular midlife energy. I believe that we inherently crave another surge of devotion, and I believe that we’re particularly equipped to handle this swell. Personally, my primary calling is motherhood—I’m all-in as a mom to my 3 kids and 2 dogs, while I steadily pursue my other calling…which is being a partner, cheerleader and compass to moms like you, as you grow forward from here.Speaking of your growth… When you’re ready, here are some FREE ways that I can help you today:Take my Masterclass: The 5-Step Framework to Thrive as a Midlife MomDownload these 12 Monthly Reminders to Lovingly Support Your BecomingDig into Everwell's Vault of 250+ pre-recorded womanhood-relevant programs.Follow me on IG where I regularly share midlife mom insightsDelight in my Saturday emails (I’ve added you to the recipient list, and I hope these snapshots of midlife motherhood bring you joy and inspiration for your own journey.)Finally, and on a personal note… You’re a mom. A devoted, love-spreading, magic-making, emotion-handling gift to this world. Your family needs you. And you are doing incredible work. If no one has told you lately: THANK YOU. Moms are as essential as it gets in this life. And you’ve committed yourself to this most valuable work.And, Beautiful You, your inner light is of immense value. No one’s timeline is known, but let’s assume that you have a lot of life yet to live. Plant seeds now, my friend. Be mindful of the You of 10 years from now, the You of 20 years from now, the You of 30 years from now… and beyond. Continue to have her back by choosing actions now that will give her the fulfillment she desires.I’m so glad we’re now connected. I’ll pop up in your inbox over the next few days and share a bit more about Everwell and how we might fit into your life. (And if you’re not that into me, you’ll be able to unsubscribe as you please.)C’mon, now. Let’s grow!xo Lindsay
