Was Your Parent a Narcissist?

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  When faced with criticism, how did your parent typically react?

  • A.
    They would deflect and blame others, never accepting fault.
  • B.
    They would listen and consider the feedback, even if it was hard to hear.
  • C.
    Sometimes they would take it well, other times they'd dismiss it.
• 2.
  How does your parent handle your achievements?

  • A.
    They often take credit for my successes or overshadow them.
  • B.
    They celebrate with me and acknowledge my efforts.
  • C.
    It varies—sometimes they're supportive, other times they seem indifferent.
• 3.
  Reflect on your childhood conversations; how often did they revolve around your parent's interests?

  • A.
    Almost always, it was their topics and stories that dominated.
  • B.
    We talked about a variety of subjects, including my own interests.
  • C.
    It was a mix, but I often felt overshadowed by their stories.
• 4.
  How did your parent react to other people's misfortunes?

  • A.
    They seemed indifferent or even pleased if it meant they looked better by comparison.
  • B.
    They showed genuine empathy and concern for others.
  • C.
    Their reactions were inconsistent—sometimes empathetic, sometimes not.
• 5.
  Consider the level of empathy your parent showed. How would you describe it?

  • A.
    They rarely showed genuine empathy; it was usually about them.
  • B.
    They were often understanding and compassionate.
  • C.
    Their empathy seemed conditional or based on their mood.
• 6.
  How did your parent approach relationships with others?

  • A.
    They often used people for their own gain and lacked genuine connections.
  • B.
    They maintained healthy, reciprocal relationships.
  • C.
    Relationships were sometimes good, other times they seemed to use people.
• 7.
  How would your parent handle disagreements or arguments?

  • A.
    They had to win at all costs and would not back down.
  • B.
    They could engage in a healthy debate and accept differing opinions.
  • C.
    It depended on the situation; sometimes they were reasonable, other times not.
• 8.
  Did your parent require excessive admiration or attention?

  • A.
    Yes, they needed constant praise and attention.
  • B.
    No, they were comfortable without being the center of attention.
  • C.
    Sometimes they craved attention, but it wasn't a constant need.
• 9.
  How did your parent express their self-esteem?

  • A.
    They had an inflated sense of self-importance and entitlement.
  • B.
    They were confident but also humble and realistic about their abilities.
  • C.
    Their self-esteem seemed to fluctuate between high and low.
• 10.
  How did your parent treat their own needs compared to yours?

  • A.
    Their needs always came first, regardless of the situation.
  • B.
    They balanced their needs with mine and were considerate.
  • C.
    It varied—sometimes I felt prioritized, other times neglected.
• 11.
  How did your parent respond to your emotional needs?

  • A.
    They were often dismissive or ignored my emotional needs.
  • B.
    They were attentive and supportive of my emotional well-being.
  • C.
    Their support was inconsistent; sometimes they were there for me, sometimes not.
• 12.
  How did your parent react when you expressed a different opinion or belief?

  • A.
    They would often belittle my views or become angry.
  • B.
    They respected my perspective and encouraged open dialogue.
  • C.
    Their reaction was unpredictable—sometimes accepting, sometimes dismissive.
• 13.
  How did your parent handle their mistakes or failures?

  • A.
    They rarely admitted to mistakes and often blamed others.
  • B.
    They owned up to their mistakes and learned from them.
  • C.
    They sometimes admitted fault, but other times they would shift the blame.
• 14.
  How did your parent view their role in the family?

  • A.
    They saw themselves as the undisputed leader or star of the family.
  • B.
    They believed in teamwork and shared responsibilities.
  • C.
    Their role seemed to change based on what served them best at the time.
• 15.
  How did your parent approach giving and receiving in the family?

  • A.
    They expected to receive more than they gave, often taking without reciprocating.
  • B.
    They were generous and fair, ensuring everyone's needs were met.
  • C.
    It was a mix; sometimes they were giving, other times they expected more in return.

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  Your Parent is a Narcissist

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  Growing up with narcissists can give you a fractured outlook on life. If you want to heal from the trauma of being raised by a narcissist, please contact us to book an appointment with a psychiatric provider.
• 2.
  Your Parent Was Not a Narcissist

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  Your parent was not a narcissist but it's interesting that you took the quiz anyway. This suggests that you might need support in other ways. Please contact us to book an appointment and let us help you lighten the load.
• 3.
  Your Parent Could Go Either Way

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  Your parent could go either way, but the ambiguity impacted you regardless. If you'd like some support to clarify how you might need to heal from old scars, please don't hesitate to contact us!