How is your attachment style affecting your relationships?

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Quiz Questions

1.
When you think about relationships, what are you most concerned about?
- A.
  Losing my independence
- B.
  Not being close enough
- C.
  Finding a balanced connection
- D.
  Being hurt or abandoned
2.
How do you feel about the idea of self-discovery in relationships?
- A.
  It's essential for maintaining my autonomy
- B.
  It's a journey I'm eager to embark on
- C.
  It makes me anxious, but I know it's important
- D.
  It's intimidating, but I'm ready to face my fears
3.
What's your go-to strategy for handling conflicts in a relationship?
- A.
  Communicate openly and find a middle ground
- B.
  Seek reassurance to ease my worries
- C.
  Withdraw to protect my space
- D.
  I'm torn between confronting and avoiding the issue
4.
How often do you find yourself reflecting on past relationships?
- A.
  Rarely, I focus on the present
- B.
  Often, I worry about repeating the same patterns
- C.
  Sometimes, but I prefer to keep a distance from the past
- D.
  Frequently, it's a mix of longing and fear
5.
What aspect of relationships makes you the happiest?
- A.
  Sharing a deep, trusting bond
- B.
  Feeling loved and needed
- C.
  Maintaining my sense of self while with someone
- D.
  The hope of finding someone who accepts me fully
6.
What's your favorite aspect of personal growth in relationships?
- A.
  Learning to trust and share my life
- B.
  Overcoming my fears of abandonment
- C.
  Finding ways to be close without feeling trapped
- D.
  Balancing my desire for intimacy with my fear of it
7.
How do you like your personal space in a relationship?
- A.
  I enjoy sharing it with my partner
- B.
  I need a lot of reassurance when we're apart
- C.
  I prefer to have a clear boundary and ample space
- D.
  I'm unsure, sometimes I want closeness, sometimes I don't
8.
What makes you most frustrated about your current state of relationships?
- A.
  Not much, I'm quite content
- B.
  Feeling uncertain about my partner's feelings
- C.
  Feeling pressured to be more intimate than I'm comfortable with
- D.
  My mixed emotions and indecisiveness
9.
What do you dream about when it comes to future relationships?
- A.
  A partnership that's both loving and liberating
- B.
  A relationship where I never have to doubt their commitment
- C.
  A connection that respects my need for space
- D.
  Finding someone who can handle my complexities
10.
What's your idea of a perfect date?
- A.
  A comfortable evening where we can be ourselves
- B.
  An intimate setting where we can be close
- C.
  An independent activity that we can both enjoy
- D.
  A date that reassures me of their interest despite my fears
11.
How comfortable are you with expressing your needs in a relationship?
- A.
  Very comfortable, communication is key
- B.
  Somewhat comfortable, but I worry about being too needy
- C.
  Not very comfortable, I don't want to seem dependent
- D.
  It's complicated, I'm afraid of being rejected or overwhelmed
12.
What's your go-to method for finding peace in your love life?
- A.
  Maintaining a healthy balance of togetherness and individuality
- B.
  Seeking constant reassurance and connection
- C.
  Keeping a safe distance to avoid getting hurt
- D.
  Struggling between wanting closeness and fearing it
13.
What's your favorite way to show affection?
- A.
  Through consistent acts of love and support
- B.
  By always being there and showing I care
- C.
  With space and respect for my partner's independence
- D.
  It varies, sometimes I'm all in, sometimes I hold back
14.
How do you like to spend time with your partner?
- A.
  Doing activities that strengthen our bond
- B.
  In close, meaningful moments that reassure me of their love
- C.
  In ways that allow us both to maintain our independence
- D.
  I'm not always sure, I need a partner who is patient with my moods

Quiz Outcomes

1.
Secure Connector
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Your attachment style is Secure Connector. You're comfortable with intimacy and independence, balancing both with ease. You're doing well, but my coaching can help you maintain and deepen your fulfilling connections even more. Remember the healing journey is never actually ever finished. With a secure attachment style however, you get the amazing gift of using your strengths to enrich your relationship even further and unlock your soul purpose.Why don't we explore this on one of my FREE 60 min Soulmate Strategy calls? During our time together, we will focus on: -Gaining insight in to where you currently are on your journey to ATTRACTING the type of man who is on the same level as you. -Developing clarity on the root cause of any patterns that keep showing up in your life. -Devising an action plan for in order to fill any BIG gaps in your dating for you.
2.
Anxious Seeker
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Your attachment style is Anxious Seeker. You crave closeness and may fear abandonment, which can lead to feeling anxious in relationships. I can guide you towards a more secure footing in love so that you can embrace the feeling of safety in partnerships without the overwhelm.Remember the healing journey is never actually ever finished. Those with an anxious attachment style usually have an enormous capacity for love that just needs some guidance and training in order for you to channel it in the healthiest way.Why don't we explore this on one of my FREE 60 min Soulmate Strategy calls? During our time together, we will focus on: -Gaining insight in to where you currently are on your journey to ATTRACTING the type of man who is on the same level as you. -Developing clarity on the root cause of any patterns that keep showing up in your life. -Devising an action plan for in order to fill any BIG gaps in your dating for you.
3.
Avoidant Voyager
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Your attachment style is Avoidant Voyager. You value independence and may struggle with closeness. My services can assist you in embracing intimacy without losing your sense of self. I will help you see that by allowing more love into your life that this does not ultimately you have to give up anything in order to have it. Remember the healing journey is never actually ever finished. Those with an avoidant attachment style usually have an enormous capacity for love that in the past has been taken advantage of by someone who did not know what healthy attachment looked like. This means that unlike the common belief that exists amongst Avoidants, you are NOT broken. There is absolutely nothing to FIX. It is only a matter of reconnecting with love in a healthy way that feels safe and empowering for you.Why don't we explore this on one of my FREE 60 min Soulmate Strategy calls? During our time together, we will focus on:-Gaining insight in to where you currently are on your journey to ATTRACTING the type of man who is on the same level as you.-Developing clarity on the root cause of any patterns that keep showing up in your life.-Devising an action plan for in order to fill any BIG gaps in your dating for you.
4.
Fearful Navigator
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Your attachment style is Fearful Navigator. You may have mixed feelings about intimacy and independence, causing uncertainty. Let's work together to find your path to secure and loving relationships. You can embrace the feeling of safety in partnerships without having to suddenly push people away or doubt their intentions. You are a beautiful soul - but having your guard up with one foot in the door and one foot out is stopping you form experiencing the full range of how beautiful love can really be for you.Remember the healing journey is never actually ever finished. Those with a similar attachment style usually experienced one or more caregivers who were quite unpredictable with how they showed love - at a moments notice their love could be withdrawn, which easily can cause an anxiety about intimacy that makes adult relationships seem like they can never truly be a consistently safe place.This means that unlike the common belief that exists amongst those with this attachment style, you are NOT broken. There is absolutely nothing to FIX. It is only a matter of reconnecting with love in a healthy way that feels safe and empowering for you.Why don't we explore this on one of my FREE 60 min Soulmate Strategy calls? During our time together, we will focus on:-Gaining insight in to where you currently are on your journey to ATTRACTING the type of man who is on the same level as you.-Developing clarity on the root cause of any patterns that keep showing up in your life.-Devising an action plan for in order to fill any BIG gaps in your dating for you.