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Your result is… Yellow.
This result is a combination of your current knowledge level and your horse’s current training level. It is important to remember that there is no one category or result is better or worse than the other. In this stage, one or both of you feel insecure, which can create safety issues. When a horse and a human come together, both are learning how to communicate with another species. That’s a big deal! There are several ways people end up in this category: By choice, by accident, or by design.By choice:‘By choice’ include starting a horse under saddle, or you bought a challenging horse with the goal of improving their life. If this is you, then you signed up for the adventure of navigating the stage. This is where I am every time I start a young horse under saddle, or help someone with a horse that is struggling.By accident:If you find yourself in this category, but this wasn’t part of your desired plan, it can be a bit of a shock or disappointment. WARNING: If you didn’t choose this adventure, you will have a strong desire to rush out of this stage. The most common way people try to rush out of this stage is to pretend it’s not happening, brushing it off as a one-time thing, or some version of this. If you feel unsafe, you MUST develop a plan for how you will handle what has happened, or what you fear will happen. You may be in this stage because you have noticed certain behaviors with your horse that you are unsure how to address. Issues like head tossing, spooking, lack of forward motion, rushing, nervous or anxious behaviors are often reported when a rider is in this category. Horses often return to this stage if their foundation training was incomplete, or if they have had large amounts of time off, or if they are confused.You are in this category because you have safety concerns. You may have had a recent scare, a spook, or an ‘unplanned dismount.’ Even without an incident occurring, you may feel worried, anxious or fearful just knowing that these things are a possibility.By design:Some people experience doubts and concerns as a result of stretching their current comfort zone. That could include buying a new horse, riding in new location, or anything that triggers your brain to consider possible safety issues. In this situation, you may notice that you have no ‘evidence’, and while this may be true, the fact that you feel unsafe, or unsure is enough to warrant developing a plan.The important thing to remember is that the safety stage is a stage. When a horse and a human come together, both are learning how to communicate with another species. That’s a big deal! While goal is to move past this stage, there is no shame in being here. To accomplish this, you must learn how to support your horse, and yourself, as you navigate your current challenge. When riders learn how to best support their horse in the current stage or category, they both become more confident. ----------------------------------Your strength: You are aware of your concerns. You are willing to admit that you are struggling with your horse and you are seeing help.Your challenge: The safety stage involves powerful emotions. Fear can point towards two things: fear of physical harm or fear of emotional harm. Many people fear public speaking even though the physical risk is very low. This is an example of fear of potential emotional harm (potential negative thoughts from others or yourself).When riding a horse and dealing with fear, it is important to address both areas. You need a plan to keep yourself, and your horse, physically safe. In addition, you will benefit from learning how to handle strong emotions such as fear, self judgements, and doubt.Your biggest challenge could be that, in the future, you may decide to ignore or pretend the emotion ‘doesn’t matter’, especially if your horse doesn’t have symptoms. Your next steps: Evaluate your skill set and decide if you need to slow down and apply what you know, or reach out for more knowledge and support.Create a specific plan for how you will ride proactively to prevent the problem, rather than waiting to see if it occurs again.Identify three emotions that are showing up in your body and contributing to this issue.Create a plan for how you will handle these emotions when they come up again, and what emotions you’ll need to generate to move forward. Remember that even if your horse doesn’t have symptoms, it’s still important to develop a plan. Your horse feels your reins, your legs, your seat, AND your emotional state. Plus, you deserve to enjoy your time with you horse!