Discover Your Desires in Marriage

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  When facing relationship challenges, what's your go-to approach?

  • A.
    I create time and space to initiate practical conversations.
  • B.
    I focus on creating an intimate atmosphere to reconnect.
  • C.
    I research what others in my community have done.
• 2.
  What aspect of a relationship do you prioritize the most?

  • A.
    Maintaining a passionate and intimate connection for just the two of us and our family.
  • B.
    Keeping our relationship busy and flourishing as an example to others in the world.
  • C.
    Providing a sense of safety and consistency so we can be refreshed.
• 3.
  Choose a date night theme that resonates with you:

  • A.
    A one to one conversation over dinner as the top priority.
  • B.
    A time of adventure or sexual intimacy as the top priority.
  • C.
    An evening of games and laughter with friends as a priority.
• 4.
  What's your ideal way to spend personal time with your partner?

  • A.
    Exploring new ways to enhance our sexual intimacy.
  • B.
    Trying out a new and exciting activity or class together.
  • C.
    Building plans for our future security and wellness.
• 5.
  What do you believe is the cornerstone of a strong relationship?

  • A.
    A deep and abiding sense of shared intimacy.
  • B.
    An ability to influence our community with love and light.
  • C.
    A mutual feeling of safety and security together and individually.
• 6.
  How do you handle disagreements with your partner?

  • A.
    By talking it out until we reach an understanding.
  • B.
    By reconnecting intimately or sexually to reaffirm our bond.
  • C.
    By talking to a third party or wise mentor regularly
  • D.
    By reading books or listening to podcasts to get the scoop
• 7.
  What's your first thought when your partner is upset?

  • A.
    I feel passionately drawn to them and try to have close conversation.
  • B.
    I think about how can I help them feel secure.
  • C.
    I think about what I've learned about how others handle this in my culture.
• 8.
  What's your favorite way to show love?

  • A.
    Through physical touch and/or deep conversations.
  • B.
    Through resourcing my partner with money, safety, and security.
  • C.
    Through special adventures in the world with family and friends by our side.
• 9.
  What do you find most rewarding in your relationship?

  • A.
    Our deep emotional and sexual connection.
  • B.
    The sense of peace and security we have together.
  • C.
    The ways we serve our community together
• 10.
  What's your approach to a partner's personal growth?

  • A.
    I want to know it all and I support them with love and affection.
  • B.
    I inspire them to try new things and have fun in the world.
  • C.
    I provide a stable environment for them to flourish.

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  You're A Social Sensation!

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  Your strength lies in social savvy - that social instinct (SO) is first and foremost! You know social capital is even more important than almost anything else and you bring this to your marriage. You have a knack for expressing your thoughts and feelings in a way that fosters understanding and closeness. Embrace this gift to deepen your bonds. My book and coaching can guide you to even greater heights in your relationship's dialogue.
• 2.
  You're an Intimacy Architect!

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  Your forte is building intimacy - that one-to-one or sexual instinct (SX) is first and foremost! You create a safe space for emotional and physical connection, which is essential for a fulfilling relationship. Let's work together to construct an even more passionate and resilient partnership with my tailored guides and coaching.
• 3.
  You're a Stabilizing Supporter! 

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  You excel at creating a stabilizing, refreshing, secure and stable environment for you and your partner together - that self preservation (SP) instinct is first and foremost! Your ability to offer safety and support is invaluable as you create margin and healthy routines so you can stay safe and have fun together, too. With my tools and coaching, we can strengthen the foundation of trust and security in your relationship even further.