1/33. When I date someone that I really like, I tend to think, that I am more lucky than him
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
2.
2/33. It’s important to my self-worth that a man chooses me. Rejection makes me feel that I am not deserving of love
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
3.
3/33. Many men will find me attractive on a date, when I show up as my best self
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
4.
4/33. If the man, that I am dating, doesn’t text me for a while, I often worry that he’s lost interest or found someone better than me
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
5.
5/33. I don’t care how hot a guy is, if he isn’t prioritising me, I'm not interested
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
6.
6/33. I often fear that once a man gets really close to me, he will lose interest
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
7.
7/33. If I meet someone who is attractive, kind and interesting, I worry that I might not be good enough for him
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
8.
8/33. I don’t have to impress a man or change who I am for him to love me
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
9.
9/33. When I am single, I feel less valuable as a person
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
10.
10/33. There are many men who want to date someone like me. I don’t have to accept less attention and commitment, than what I want
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
11.
11/33. I often worry that my partner is withdrawing or about to leave me
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
12.
12/33. I consider myself to be a woman who has a lot to offer in a relationship, even if I am not perfect
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
13.
13/33. I often hold back with sharing who I really am in a relationship, out of fear of being hurt
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
14.
14/33. When I meet someone attractive, I prefer to not ruin it by talking about what I am looking for in a relationship
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
15.
15/33. I am ok saying no to being intimate with a man, when it's too early for me - even if I like him and I don’t want to lose him
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
16.
16/33. If I struggle to understand how my partner feels about me, I prefer to analyse him instead of asking him
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
17.
17/33. If I feel sad or overwhelmed with negative emotions, I prefer to not share that with my partner, as I fear it might push him away
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
18.
18/33. I believe that its better to worry about a potential breakup, than to be surprised, if it should happen
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
19.
19/33. I am ok setting boundaries with a man, even if I like him and this might disappoint him
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
20.
20/33. I don’t want to be needy, so I would never tell a partner that I want to see him more often
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
21.
21/33. I would rather pretend that everything is fine and see if I feel better tomorrow, than having a difficult conversation with my partner
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
22.
22/33. I don’t mind being the first one to say “I love you” in a relationship
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
23.
23/33. If I meet someone hot, I am ok to be in a casual situationship with him, if that's what he wants. I prefer to take what I can get, and hope that he will change his mind
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
24.
24/33. If I don’t have a partner, my life feels empty
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
25.
25/33. I normally don’t worry that a man will convince me into doing things I regret afterwards, I trust that I will be able to say no
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
26.
26/33. When I am dating someone new, I tend to lose sight of most of my friends because I want to spend all of my time with the man
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
27.
27/33. I know what is important to me, and I might make small compromises here and there, but I will never abandon my values for a man, even if he is attractive
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
28.
28/33. If my partner leaves me, I will of course be very sad, but I know I will get over it and one day find love again
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
29.
29/33. When I am dating someone new, I tend to focus more on whether he likes me than whether I like him
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
30.
30/33. I still believe that I can create a loving and long-lasting relationship, even if all my past relationships have ended
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
31.
31/33. After a breakup I only fully recover when I have met someone new
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
32.
32/33. If someone I really like isn’t showing me the same interest, I go all in on convincing him of my value as a woman
A.
Strongly agree
B.
Agree
C.
Neutral/not sure
D.
Disagree
E.
Strongly disagree
33.
33/33. I know I will meet an amazing partner as long as I keep going on dates and show up as myself
