Relationship Clarity Quiz💡

Quiz Questions

• 1.
  When you express your needs, do they:

  • A.
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    Listen and take it in like a TED Talk audience.
  • B.
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    Give a half-hearted “Okay, I hear you,” but nothing changes.
  • C.
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    Turn it around and make me the bad guy—like WTF just happened!
• 2.
  When they’re upset, do you find yourself apologizing just to keep the peace?

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  • A.
    Nope, we resolve things like adults.
  • B.
    Occasionally, to be the "bigger" person.
  • C.
    All the time—I could write an apology manual at this point.
• 3.
  After spending time with them, how do you feel?

  • A.
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    Recharged and supported, like I just left brunch with my girls.
  • B.
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    Neutral—it’s hit or miss honestly.
  • C.
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    Exhausted, like I just ran a marathon—except there’s no finish line.
• 4.
  Do they ever make you feel like you’re “too much” when you express yourself?

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  • A.
    Nope—they respect me and my feelings.
  • B.
    Sometimes—it depends on their mood.
  • C.
    Constantly—I feel like I’m always “too emotional” or “too sensitive.”
• 5.
  Do you find it easy to say "no" and set boundaries in this relationship?

  • A.
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    Boundaries Queen, I feel comfortable expressing my limits.
  • B.
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    Sometimes, it’s a work in progress because I am inconsistent.
  • C.
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    Nope, I do not communicate my boundaries well or if I do communicate them, I do not reinforce them.
• 6.
  How does conflict usually go down?

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  • A.
    We handle it like actual adults—we aren’t perfect, but it is healthy.
  • B.
    It gets brushed under the rug, only to pop up later.
  • C.
    It’s a whole production—silent treatment, yelling, or acting like it’s all my fault.
• 7.
  Do they hype you up, or do you feel like their criticism is your soundtrack?

  • A.
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    Absolutely—they’re my biggest cheerleader.
  • B.
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    Mixed—sometimes I’m a goddess; sometimes I’m the villain.
  • C.
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    CRITICISM—I feel like I’m living in a Yelp review for my life.
• 8.
  If a song could sum up this relationship dynamic, what would it be?

  • A.
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    Love All the Time by Madison Ryann Ward (This connection feels so good and rewarding!)
  • B.
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    Please Please Please by Sabrina Carpenter (There are good times but not sold it will work out.)
  • C.
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    I Hate You by Sza (This relationship often feels like an emotional tug-of-war.)
• 9.
  How often are you two in conflict?

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  • A.
    Seldom, like 1-2 times a month.
  • B.
    About once a week.
  • C.
    Honestly, more days than not.
• 10.
  When it comes to your boundaries, how do they react?

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  • A.
    They respect them and even encourage me to set more.
  • B.
    Sometimes they’re cool with them, but it’s not consistent.
  • C.
    They push pass them like I never said anything.
• 11.
  What’s your gut saying about this relationship?

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  • A.
    It’s solid—they’ve got my back, and I’ve got theirs.
  • B.
    TBH…I have doubts, but I want to work on it.
  • C.
    Something feels off, like it shouldn’t be so much of a struggle.

Quiz Outcomes

• 1.
  Healthy Harmony
• 2.
  Mixed Signals
• 3.
  Tug-of-War