"Peek Behind The Veil" Quiz

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Quiz Questions

1.
More than anything, as a Bride-To-Be you need...
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- A.
  a curated sense of welcome for guests
- B.
  a gallows sense of humor to ground you
- C.
  a daily time for self-care
- D.
  respect
- E.
  Just shoot straight with me
2.
Your trauma is most likely to search for wedding vendors...
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- A.
  around my internal conference table.
- B.
  Her fingers are actually too tense to type today.
- C.
  Nowhere! I called in some favors with my peeps- including DJ Khaled’s personal DJ’s DJ.
- D.
  in high society mags
- E.
  amongst the bespoke and renowned who are booked solid, naturally!
3.
Your trauma wants to be put in charge of the guest list and you firmly say “NO”. How does your trauma react?
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- A.
  NO? You didn’t say no... You said Yes. ( according to the post-it notes )
- B.
  She suddenly wrenches the address book out of your freshly manicured hands. Go ahead and retort, “ Over my dead body! ” in French.
- C.
  Your trauma cues the violins. Roll out the screen projector. It's time for mental movie night! We're watching: “ Estranged Family Members, the sequel ” !
- D.
  She reacts quite poorly, indeed, but You’re a lady. And it’s private.
- E.
  She doesn’t waste her time… all your best parties have been open invite. Besides, nobody needs to know you were already hitched in Vegas.
4.
At the wedding party you hope to be the one...
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- A.
  Surprising everyone with something unforgettably cool!
- B.
  treasuring our first dance.
- C.
  feeling grounded, connected, free to be me.
- D.
  Radiating elegance, as guests whisper about my "aura" and the lovely hint of Ylang Ylang .
- E.
  hand in hand with my equal - dropping jaws in my third look of the night.
5.
During appointments with the wedding planner, your inner child is...
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- A.
  coloring towering wedding cakes for you to “help”.
- B.
  poised enough to mask her worry about shipping in post-wedding brunch salmon from your HTB’s ancestral homeland.
- C.
  twerking joyfully to the playlist I easily slapped together for Frank- DJ Khaled’s DJ’s DJ’s last minute sub. ( No biggie.)
- D.
  in the far infrared sauna , calf-lifting mini ankle weights ( so as to not relax too much (despite reclining) ) .
- E.
  receiving energy work from Aunt Beast in " A Wrinkle in Time".
6.
Where in your future home would your past trauma try to sneak in and hide?
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- A.
  It would sneak in from the roof and hide in that upstairs never-used 1/2 bath.
- B.
  It would sneak in through the cat door and hide in the novel I'm writing.
- C.
  It would sneak through the garden and hide in the chocolate stash.
- D.
  It would sneak in through curious keyholes and hide in shadows of long hallways
- E.
  It would sneak in through my iphone and try to hide in my designer shoe closet. Fortunately, I thought ahead and had the closet door equipped to scan only my accountant's iris.
7.
It’s so wonderful when you’re appreciated by your future spouse for your
- A.
  innate ability to find each-other in this yucky cosmic soup.
- B.
  entrepreneurial spirit.
- C.
  tenacious true colors.
- D.
  integrity. Not to diminish my sex appeal …
- E.
  timeless wit adorned by impeccable taste.

Quiz Outcomes

1.
Creatively Soft Soul
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Congratulations! You are a Creatively Soft Soul ! This means you’re the one with a deep spirit who relishes self-care. Through the gentle touch of your artistic graces, you smooth out rough edges of this hard world for the suffering. You have natural intuitive gifts. Calm, secure experiences feel beautiful to your nervous system. While traveling, you gravitate towards sculpture gardens vs. nightlife hotspots! People may say you get easily overwhelmed or expect you to “just get over” pain. And that's hurtful. But you hope you’re a graceful woman of integrity who has never stopped growing... and never will. You'll "arrive" at the ordained time! Sometimes you may struggle with panic or physical tension rapidly depleting your energy. Constantly needing to re-balance during this life transition is frustrating! Hey I get it. And I can help. To learn the secrets of getting a panic and tension-free bridal experience as a Creatively Soft Soul, click here
2.
Multi-Dimensional Diversifier
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Congratulations! You are a Multi-Dimensional Diversifier! This means you’re the one with super rad ( very private ) life stories, a captivating, complex personality, and the ability to cherish little moments of "normal" other people waste. You have natural gifts for riding out heavy emotional storms through flexibility and inner teamwork. Plus, you bring the light of humor into the darkest of moments. Let’s be real here…That gallows sense of humor you’ve cultivated is a huge asset, right? You are also gifted at protecting little ones from stress. But Big People may keep you at arms length... And that’s deeply hurtful. Because you hope you’re a storehouse of wisdom with a ton of unique perspectives that they may find fascinating. Sometimes you may struggle with Dissociation. This may leave you feeling embarrassed in the spotlight. You may even secretly mull over concerns like, “ Will anything out of my control happen during the wedding day?” and " Can I experience the wonderful emotions I want to feel?" Hey I get it. And I can help. To learn the secrets of achieving a safely grounded wedding experience as a Multi-Dimensional Diversifier , click below.
3.
Leading Lady
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Congratulations! You are a Leading Lady ! This means you’re the one with accomplishments that set you apart and high caliber quick thinking. Deeply invested in optimally functioning for your future, You value looking and feeling your best. While others play the blame game ( dragging their feet in recovery) you pave the way up and out! Your natural gifts for leadership give you no satisfaction from resting on yesterday’s laurels. So you act and speak boldly - gorgeously in-charge ! People may say you’re a Diva and that's hurtful. But you hope you’re a “Woman with a capitol W” worthy of respect. In your interactions ( like wedding planning) , you may struggle with deep frustration, often catching yourself getting verbally snappy. This may leave you feeling annoyed that you have to anticipate and manage details for others, just to keep them safe and on track…which can lead to ignoring your own pain levels for a very long time. Hey I get it. And I can help. To learn the secrets of optimizing trauma-informed self-care during your bridal experience as a Leading Lady, click below.
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Devoted Juliet
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Congratulations! You are a Devoted Juliet ! This means you’re the one who treasures your vows, and joyfully anticipates commitment. You have natural gifts like caring deeply about others and the amazing ability to consider the vast universe- not just your own perspective. You deeply respect the mysteries of life and practice sophisticated subtlety. So, anyone blessed to be your guest savors lovingly curated details. Your taste level and creativity with romance and hospitality are second to none. Your partner is uber blessed to have hooked you, darling! People may say you’re "extra...dramatic" or “doe-eyed romantic ” but you hope you’re a mature, refined woman who is 100% supportive and committed. Because you’ve overcome so much to arrive at this moment ! You deserve all the joy your heart can hold! Sometimes you may struggle with negative perceptions of your partner's thoughts and feelings as you try to remain the perfect fiancee while overcoming personal trauma. This may leave you feeling worried about limitations, blocked by pain, or even experiencing panic attacks about the nitty-gritty details. Hey I get it. And I can help. To learn the secrets of achieving a well-rested, pain-free. confident bridal experience as a Devoted Juliet, click below.
5.
Room-Lighter-Upper
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Congratulations! You are a Room-Lighter-Upper ! This means you’re the one who radiates fun and has connections ! You constantly develop passion projects ( like saving the world ) and attract other big picture people to create them with and for you. You are street smart and generous, naturally gifted in business and public speaking with a knack for looking really hot while spinning all your plates at once! You’re not afraid to build new visions right over top of old ones. People may party with you in person and then call you manipulative in business. Because you can seem cold and calculating when negotiating expectations and making sure they are met. And that hurts. But you actually hope you’re a leader who consistently goes out on a limb for others by taking huge risks to leave an impact for justice on the world. Sometimes you may struggle with numbing yourself out, and finding " self-care time". This may leave you feeling invalidated on the inside no matter how much you exercise or control your lifestyle. Hey, I get it. And I can help. To learn the secrets of rapid non-verbal release from effects of trauma ( so you don't have to focus on being sad while joyfully prepping the best party of your frickin' life ) as a Room-lighter-Upper , click below.

"Peek Behind The Veil" Quiz

Peek behind the veil! Which of the 5 trauma-informed Bridal Archetypes is your perfect match? ( And is she secretly controlling your plans?)

Quiz Questions

Quiz Outcomes