What's Secretly Draining Your Energy?

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Quiz Questions

1.
How do you feel at the end of most days?
- A.
  Overstimulated and on edge, like I need to block out the world
- B.
  Emotionally drained -- I feel like I’ve carried everyone else’s burdens
- C.
  Tired from trying to get too much done in too little time
- D.
  Physically exhausted but restless, like I can’t fully relax
2.
What situations leave you feeling drained the fastest?
- A.
  Crowded, noisy places with lots of sensory input
- B.
  Listening to someone vent or processing heavy emotions
- C.
  Being pulled in multiple directions with no time to breathe
- D.
  Skipping meals, missing sleep, or running on empty
3.
When you’re overwhelmed or stressed, how does your body react?
- A.
  My senses feel heightened (e.g., lights seem brighter, sounds seem louder)
- B.
  I feel emotionally heavy, like I’m carrying too much
- C.
  My mind races with everything I still need to do
- D.
  I feel physically depleted -- low energy, headaches, or muscle tension
4.
How do you typically handle moments of overwhelm?
- A.
  I shut down or withdraw to escape the stimulation
- B.
  I carry on, even though I feel emotionally drained
- C.
  I try to keep going, but it feels like I’m running on fumes
- D.
  I ignore my body’s signals until I’m completely burnt out
5.
Which of these best describes your relationship with emotional energy?
- A.
  I’m constantly navigating sensory triggers, which leaves me exhausted
- B.
  I feel deeply affected by other people’s emotions, even when I try not to
- C.
  I’m so focused on doing everything perfectly that I forget to pause
- D.
  I neglect my own needs when life gets busy, which always catches up with me
6.
What does “rest” look like for you?
- A.
  Quiet time with minimal stimulation (e.g., dim lighting, no noise)
- B.
  Emotional downtime, where I don’t have to process anyone else’s feelings
- C.
  A chance to cross off lingering tasks so I can relax later
- D.
  Sleeping or zoning out, though it doesn’t always leave me refreshed
7.
How is your sleep quality?
- A.
  I struggle to fall asleep when my senses feel overloaded
- B.
  I have trouble switching off emotionally—it’s like my mind won’t stop
- C.
  I stay up late trying to finish everything, even if I know I need rest
- D.
  My sleep is irregular or poor, and I often wake up feeling drained
8.
How often do you feel physically depleted (e.g., low energy, headaches, or sluggishness)?
- A.
  Frequently, especially in overstimulating environments
- B.
  Often, after emotionally heavy conversations or experiences
- C.
  Regularly, because I’m always on the go
- D.
  All the time -- it feels like I’m running on empty
9.
What’s your typical reaction to a noisy or chaotic environment?
- A.
  I feel overwhelmed and overstimulated — I need to escape
- B.
  I can stay calm, but it takes a lot out of me emotionally
- C.
  I keep trying to get things done, but it’s harder to focus
- D.
  It leaves me feeling physically drained and tense
10.
What’s your biggest barrier to feeling more balanced?
- A.
  Finding ways to minimize sensory overload in daily life
- B.
  Setting boundaries to protect my emotional energy
- C.
  Letting go of perfectionism and overcommitment
- D.
  Prioritizing rest and physical care when I’m busy
11.
What do you wish people understood about your energy?
- A.
  I’m not antisocial -- I just need quiet to think clearly
- B.
  I care deeply, but I need space to process emotions
- C.
  I’m not lazy -- I’m just overwhelmed
- D.
  I can’t function when my body’s running on empty

Quiz Outcomes

1.
🌿 SENSORY OVERLOAD 🌿
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Your Energy Drain Archetype Is… The Overstimulated ObserverAKA: Sensory OverstimulationYou’re not imagining it -- it really is too loud, too fast, too much.And your body is working overtime to keep up.Based on your answers, your energy is most frequently drained by sensory overload and your nervous system is likely in a near-constant state of alert as it processes every sound, smell, brightness, conversation, and interruption all at once.Here’s what that means for you:You’re someone who notices everything.The texture of your shirt. The flickering overhead lights. The hum of the fridge and the pitch of someone’s voice in the next room.Your brain is absorbing these things, even if you don’t consciously realize it, and it costs your body a lot of energy.When sensory overload builds, you may feel:— Frantic, jumpy, or irritable for “no reason”— Uncomfortable in your own skin— Desperate for quiet, dark, or solitude— Like you’re mentally and physically scatteredAnd when you don’t get a break, it can lead to shutdown, emotional spirals, or a sudden feeling of needing to escape your environment.Top energy-draining triggers for sensory overload:Crowded rooms or storesBackground noise while trying to focusBright lights, flickering screens, or visual clutterStrong smells (cleaners, perfumes, food, etc.)Clothing that doesn’t feel right on your bodyTrying to multitask in stimulating environmentsGroup conversations with layered noise and activityWhat you actually need:You need space (physically, mentally, and emotionally). But not just any space — you need sensory buffering throughout your day.Not once you’ve hit your limit. Before you reach it.Try this micro-reset:The Sensory Anchor ExerciseWhen you feel overstimulated, pause and direct your full attention to one grounded sensory input:— Hold a warm mug and feel the weight in your hands— Run cold or warm water over your wrists— Place your hands under a blanket or soft texture— Light a grounding scent like vanilla or cedar— Put on noise-canceling headphones or gentle musicThe key is: limit the inputs and give your nervous system a single sensory experience to rest into.Do this for 2–5 minutes. Breathe slowly while you do it. This tells your system it’s safe to slow down.Movement + Exercise Tip:Movement might feel like one more sensory input - and that's okay. Try low-input grounding options like walking in silence or in nature, stretching in dim light or slow body weight movement with no music. The goal is regulation, not output.Nutrition Support Tip:You get easily overstimulated by textures, smells, or meal prep - often struggling with appetite or decision paralysis around food.Food fatigue is real for you. Stick to 2–3 safe, simple meals that you can repeat without stress (like avocado toast with eggs, rice bowls with tofu or chicken, or smoothies). If hot meals are too much, opt for cold, soft textures like yogurt with granola or hummus + pita. Sensory comfort is nourishment!Your Sensory Strength:Your sensitivity makes you incredibly attuned to beauty, nuance, and detail.When supported, you’re someone who can create soothing spaces, deeply experience presence, and notice the subtle things that bring others joy and comfort.Your job isn’t to dull your senses.It’s to care for them like the powerful compass they are.Want to go deeper?You don’t need a rigid routine or a full lifestyle overhaul; you need gentle, consistent support for how your system actually works.That’s exactly what we build inside Small Shifts, Big Energy.This self-paced mini course helps you create a sustainable daily energy rhythm that reduces overstimulation, protects your sensory bandwidth, and gives you practical ways to feel grounded throughout the day.If you’ve ever felt like the world moves too fast for your nervous system, SSBE is a way to finally slow it down on your terms.Tap the COURSE button below for more details.
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💛 EMOTIONAL OVERLOAD 💛
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Your Energy Drain Archetype Is… The Emotional AbsorberAKA: Emotion(al) OverloadYou’re the one people open up to.You’re always tuned in to what others are feeling even when they haven’t said a word.But when you don’t have space to process your emotions, or even know where yours end and someone else’s begin… it takes a toll.Here’s what that means for you:Your energy is likely being drained by emotional labor — the kind no one sees you doing.You’re not just feeling your own stress -- you’re carrying the weight of other people’s moods, needs, and expectations. Even when you’re exhausted, you still show up. You still hold space.But under the surface, you may feel:— Mentally foggy or emotionally heavy— On edge, with no idea why— Frustrated by your own outbursts or withdrawal— Like you need a full day alone just to feel okay againAnd when you don’t get a chance to decompress:You shut down.You get snappy.Or you quietly go numb until you have time to rebuild yourself.Top energy-draining triggers for emotional overload:Being around unregulated or emotionally intense peopleHolding space for others without support for yourselfConflict (even subtle or passive tension)Absorbing someone else’s stress, sadness, or anxietyBeing expected to “show up” when you feel depletedTrying to manage or “fix” things that aren’t yours to carryWhat you actually need:You need emotional decompression built into your day, not just after a breakdown.A moment to come back to yourself.To clear what isn’t yours, and re-ground in what is.Try this micro-reset:The Emotional Separation ResetWhen you notice you’re holding emotions that might not be yours, pause and ask yourself:Is this mine to carry?Do I feel this, or did I absorb it?What would it feel like to set it down for a moment?Then, do a 3-step release:Shake out your hands or body to physically resetPlace your hand over your chest or stomach and take 3 slow breathsSay (out loud or in your head): “What’s not mine can go back. What is mine, I’ll hold with care.”Even 2 minutes of emotional re-centering can restore your clarity and lighten the load.Movement + Exercise Tip:Movement can help you move through what you're feeling. Mindful strength training, pacing while listening to calm music/while doing chores, or walking somewhere quiet and/or in nature can help you release what you're holding without needing to process it all in your head.Nutrition Support Tip: You may be easily overwhelmed by emotional energy + may forget to eat or crave comfort foods when dysregulated.Your body tends to hold onto emotional energy and that takes fuel. You may find yourself reaching for sugar or carbs after a heavy emotional day, and that’s not a failure, it’s a signal from your body to you. Try pairing comfort foods with grounding proteins (like adding turkey or eggs to toast or pairing a granola bar with Greek yogurt) to help stabilize mood swings and emotional crashes. Your Emotional Strength:You have an unmatched depth of empathy and compassion.You feel things deeply and that’s not something to fix. It’s something to protect.When you start honoring your emotional rhythms, you’ll have more space to feel yourself again, not just everyone else.Want to take this further?This is exactly what I guide you through inside Small Shifts, Big Energy — a course designed to help you build a nervous system–friendly rhythm that supports your emotions, your energy, and your boundaries.If you’re ready to stop carrying it all alone, this is for you.Tap the COURSE button below for more info.
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🧠 TASK OVERLOAD 🧠
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Your Energy Drain Type Is… The Overcommitted AchieverAKA: Task OverloadYou’re the go-to person.The one who gets it done, keeps the list, remembers the things no one else does.But somewhere along the way, it stopped feeling productive and started feeling… crushing.Here’s what that means for you:Your energy is most often drained by too many moving parts and not enough room to breathe.You’re constantly managing things — mentally and physically.Even when you’re “resting,” your brain is cycling through tasks, logistics, and everything that still hasn’t been checked off.This isn’t just a busy schedule; it’s nervous system fatigue.Because doing too much for too long, without recovery, keeps your body in a low-level stress response. It’s like running 37 browser tabs and wondering why the system’s slow.You might notice:— Difficulty focusing even though you have a thousand things to do— Feeling irritated by interruptions, even small ones— Trouble falling asleep because your brain is still “on”— Feeling guilty for resting, even when you’re exhaustedTop energy-draining triggers for task overload:Constant multitaskingLong to-do lists with no built-in pausesLack of boundaries between work and restPerfectionism or fear of falling behindBeing “on” all the time without recovery timeInternal pressure to earn rest by finishing everythingWhat you actually need:You need structured softness.Not rigid routines or hustle, but sustainable rhythms that create breathing room inside your day.Not after everything’s done. Along the way.Try this micro-reset:The “One-Thing Pause”Next time your brain is jumping between tasks, try this:Stop what you’re doing—even just for 60 seconds.Place your hand on something steady (your desk, your body, the wall).Ask yourself: “What is the one thing I can focus on right now?”Name it out loud. Then exhale.Return to it with full presence — just that one thing.This helps your nervous system feel anchored instead of scattered and reduces energy leaks caused by mental fragmentation.Movement + Exercise Tip:For you, movement needs to feel like release - not another task on your list. Short, unstructured sessions (like a quick 5–15-minute flow, short strength sessions, or walking -not to track steps) can help your body reset without overloading your brain.Nutrition Support Tip:You likely run on stress and perfectionism, often skips meals or snacks due to time pressure and mental overload.You’re probably not “bad at eating," you’re just busy and in hyper-focus mode. Keep simple, no-brain snacks in your rotation like a protein bar, trail mix, or banana with nut butter. Prepping just one balanced meal the night before (like overnight oats or a wrap) can keep your energy stable without decision fatigue.Your Task-Based Strength:You’re someone who gets things done...because you care.You notice what needs tending.You remember what others forget.But when you support your energy before depletion, you don’t just stay productive… you stay well.You were never meant to do it all alone. You were meant to do it differently.Ready to create a rhythm that works for you?Small Shifts, Big Energy was designed to help you gently rebuild your energy from the inside out without adding more to your plate.Inside, you’ll learn how to create a daily reset rhythm that prevents burnout, supports your capacity, and helps you feel more present in your body (and your life).If you’ve been running on fumes, this is your invitation to start refueling.Tap the COURSE button below to learn more.
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🔋 PHYSIOLOGICAL DEPLETION 🔋
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Your Energy Drain Type Is… The Depleted DoerAKA: Physiological DepletionYou’re not “just tired.”You’re running on an empty tank and your body’s been whispering that for a while now.But when life doesn’t give you space to slow down, whispering turns into shouting.And that shouting sounds like: brain fog, tension, exhaustion, irritability, and the overwhelming feeling that you’re barely getting through the day.Here’s what that means for you:Your energy is being drained by a lack of the basic physical resources your nervous system needs to function well.You might be:— Skipping meals (or eating whatever’s around when you crash)— Running on caffeine but still dragging— Falling asleep late, waking up groggy— Feeling like no amount of sleep actually restores you— Ignoring your body until it starts screaming for attentionYou’ve probably gotten really good at pushing through… until your body pushes back.Top energy-draining triggers for physiological depletion:Skipping meals or under-eating throughout the dayInconsistent sleep or wired-but-tired eveningsDrinking coffee before foodNot hydrating until you’re already drainedTreating rest like a luxury instead of a needForgetting that “basic” needs are actually foundationalWhat you actually need:You need real nourishment.Not just food but energy restoration at the most foundational level: eating regularly, sleeping deeply, and moving in ways that give energy instead of draining it.Your nervous system needs you to stop asking it to regulate when it’s underfed, under-rested, and overstimulated.Try this micro-reset:The Fuel + Pause ResetNext time you feel tired, foggy, or out of it - before reaching for another coffee or trying to push through - try this:Eat a quick snack with balanced protein + carbs + fat (think: trail mix, yogurt + granola, banana + peanut butter).After eating, pause for 3 minutes. No phone. No task. Just breathe.Ask yourself: “What does my body need next?”This tiny reset nourishes your system and gives it permission to slow down and recalibrate, even in the middle of a busy day.Movement + Exercise Tip:Movement may feel out of reach right now - and that's okay. Try gentle circulation-based options: a slow + mindful walk outdoors, an indoor treadmill walk with a Netflix show, light mobility/stretching on the floor or in bed, or 1-3 songs worth of dancing. Think of movement as nourishment right now, not something you have to earn. Nutrition Support Tip:You may struggle with chronic low energy, brain fog, or sleep dysregulation. You may also forget to eat regularly or rely on caffeine to power through.Start your day with protein and complex carbs -- even if you’re not hungry. Something like scrambled eggs with toast or oatmeal with almond butter can help rebalance your blood sugar and prevent the late-afternoon crash. Keep a hydration plan too (like water with electrolytes or herbal tea), especially if you rely heavily on caffeine.Your Physiological Strength:You are resilient. You’ve probably survived on willpower for longer than most people ever notice.But your body isn’t the problem. It’s the part of you that’s been carrying it all.When you start meeting your physical needs consistently, you’ll stop swinging between collapse and control (and start feeling like you have capacity again).Ready to feel steady instead of constantly depleted?That’s what we build together inside Small Shifts, Big Energy -- a self-paced course that helps you rebuild your energy by supporting your body, your rhythm, and your sensitivity.This isn’t another routine to “get right.” It’s a way to actually feel rested, resourced, and in tune with yourself again.Tap the COURSE button below to learn more.